China has always been known as a country of etiquette.

In ancient times, ceremony ranked third among the five permanent members, which shows the importance of "ceremony" in daily life. The "wedding candle" is one of the four happy events in China, so the importance of giving "gifts" when getting married is self-evident.

Nowadays, wedding red envelopes are more and more dominant in wedding gifts. How to write a wedding greeting with a red envelope when giving a red envelope when getting married? Let's take a look at the writing and format of the wedding red envelope message. How to write a wedding message? How to write the common format of wedding congratulations? First, you can write vertically or horizontally (ancient Chinese writes vertically and modern Chinese writes horizontally). Second, you can write the name of the bride and groom, or you can leave it blank (if you know it, you can leave it blank). Third, you can write the lower left corner vertically and the lower right corner horizontally.

In fact, in the past, people were very particular about giving gifts and giving red envelopes, and there were strict requirements: first, when signing, according to the living conditions of your parents and grandparents, for example, the other party is a married woman: 1: Both parents are here, write: Clothes Department: all servants, * * *; 2. The father is: strict service * * *; 3. Mother is kind.

Signature: same surname, only signature, different surname: sign your name. An example of how to write a wedding message: a wedding red envelope should express the meaning of celebration.

In addition to holiday greetings, the red envelope itself can also be mapped to a specific book format. Especially among friends, the format of wedding red envelopes can also be slightly different.

First, you can write vertically or horizontally (creative ones can be written backwards); Second, the name of the bride and groom can be written or not (friends can write titles); Third, write the lower left corner vertically and the lower right corner horizontally; Fourth, you can write more than one wedding red envelope message, but it is best to write four sentences; Give an example of the wedding red envelope short message format: Blessing: Happy wedding, eternal unity, eternal love and eternal happiness! Girlfriend: xxx How to Write a Wedding Congratulatory Note 1. You usually give a red envelope when you see the groom. Don't be too late

Generally speaking, if you are a friend of the groom, give it to the groom, if you are a friend of the bride, give it to the bride or send it to the reception desk. This is a general rule, of course, there are special circumstances, then specific problems, specific analysis.

Of course, if the relationship is close, it's best to say a few jokes to enliven the atmosphere and make friends happy that you attended his wedding. Don't forget to write the greeting and your name on the red envelope, because there will be many relatives and friends on the wedding day. If you don't write your name, you won't remember who sent it.

2. How to give a red envelope on the wedding day?

China traditional wedding should pay more attention to etiquette. There are many steps, without which the woman's family will feel very uncomfortable.

First of all, when you are ready to get married, the parents of the man should go to the woman's house to discuss, set a date, choose a way, and so on. After the decision is made, there will be a bride price.

In addition to local customs, the man should give a red envelope at the bride price, which is the real bride price. How much should I pay in advance according to the agreement? More money should be given to the rich and less money should be given to those who are not so rich. In addition, there are two yuan in the quilt when giving the bride price to the man, and two yuan in the cupboard, bed and pillow at home (and sugar, just put money in the quilt) for use after the ceremony.

After dinner on the wedding day, the man goes to the woman's house to get married and brings a lot of red envelopes. There are dozens of small pieces, and some two pieces are in it, because there will be many "troublemakers" in the woman's house that you dare not expect to make you bleed. So! ! Hehehe, got it? The woman's parents will prepare red envelopes for her son-in-law.

When leaving the woman's house for the hotel ceremony, the man's mother will prepare a red stool (just stick red paper on it) to let the daughter-in-law get off. At this time, she will ask for a red envelope, and the woman will get off when she sees it. (Generally, there is no provision for how much money. If the man has too many brothers and the woman loves to fight for property and gives too little, it may not be possible, but this is rare. At this time, the woman should prepare as many red envelopes as she wants, at least ten dollars, because there will be an elder to comb her hair (symbolic). You don't need to give a red envelope for this. In the south, there will be a girl who will bring face lotion to her sister-in-law to wash her face (symbolic).

At the formal ceremony, the man's parents will give him a red envelope, which is odd. This is special. It means that the bride is one in a thousand or a good girl and daughter-in-law in a thousand. Therefore, it is necessary to add a piece. When we got married, it was 1000 1. When the conditions are good now, it is generally this number, and in rural areas it is 100 1 or more. However, those with rich conditions are one in a hundred. (This eleven thousand is the sum of two parents: one is 5000 and the other is 500 1. Then there is the man's immediate elders (such as grandfather, grandmother, grandmother, grandfather, etc.). These are people's random wishes. Finally, on the wine table, when the woman toasts the man, the man's immediate elders will give him red envelopes (such as aunts and aunts). That is, parents, brothers and sisters and grandparents, grandmothers and grandfathers. Finally, ask the man to prepare an opened red envelope for the woman's brother, because this box is very important. There are clothes your man bought for her at the bride price, and money from both parents. This money is usually given by the woman's family. Double the man's house and lock it. The key should be kept by the woman's brother, and then the man will give the woman's brother a red envelope. ! !

However, traditional western-style weddings are not so complicated. Because western-style weddings are witnessed, in the church, the woman's father gives her daughter to her son-in-law and asks the priest to recite scriptures. Exchange rings, kiss and get a red envelope. Just pay the bride price according to China tradition before marriage. And the whole process should be quiet, because the church is sacred and the wedding is sacred and serious. Only when the priest allows both sides to kiss can there be sound and excitement.

A wedding that combines Chinese and western culture, besides not going to church and inviting a priest, is to add up the first two. This kind of wedding is sacred and lively.

3. When getting married, how many big red envelopes and small red envelopes to buy and how many to seal.

Wedding red envelopes depend on the situation, for example, the number of red envelopes depends on how many people come to congratulate when they get married; The size of a red envelope depends on your local customs. You can refer to other people's red envelopes.

Small red envelopes are usually two ones, that is, 2 yuan. Generally, they go to the bank and exchange them for new ones, depending on the number of relatives and friends. Generally, 200-400 is enough. There must be no less wedding red envelopes. You would rather have more than less. If you have more, you can take them out. Anyway, it's a festive event. For once, you don't care much.

Big red envelopes are generally 128 yuan, 168 yuan, 188 yuan, which are basically the same. This kind of red envelope is usually given to wedding cars and relatives and children.

There is also a big red envelope for very important relatives, usually the closest family members of the woman. It can be 500 yuan and 600 yuan, 1000 yuan, and the amount is determined according to the number of the woman's family.

This is our custom. I wonder if it conforms to your local customs, for reference only.