Two years later, the girl regretted it. She is still single and can't find a partner. When she saw the man, she got married and had children. A family of three lives a very happy life. She regrets that it should be her own life, but it has become like this because of the bride price. Unfortunately, it's no use regretting again. Personally, I think the bride price money can really reflect the man's attitude, but this is not the only standard. You have to see whether he is willing to take action for you, whether he is willing to borrow or open his hands and say that he has no money. You can rest assured to marry him, because he has worked hard for you, and the latter will say that he has no money to send you away only if he doesn't want to pay. Since everyone has seen each other's sincerity and attitude, it doesn't matter whether the bride price is more or less. Why do you want to break up because of this little money? This is tantamount to self-destruction of happiness.

Event carding: A man and a woman have been in love for many years and plan to get married. Both parents agreed to the marriage. They thought it would go well, but they didn't expect to be defeated in the bride price. The woman's parents asked the man for a bride price of 200 thousand. Because the man's family is not rich, he only scraped together150 thousand. Unexpectedly, the woman's parents insisted on adding 30 thousand yuan on their way to the wedding reception. The man could not bear to break off his marriage and get back150,000. This relationship just collapsed. At that time, the woman still felt that the man didn't love himself enough and couldn't bear to take out a mere 30 thousand yuan. It was not until two years later that she saw him get married and have children that she regretted not getting married. A family of three lives a very happy life, and men are getting richer and richer. At this time, the woman regretted it and felt that she had missed happiness.

0 1, the man has shown all sincerity, and the woman should stop talking. The man's family condition is better than that of the woman. He has a house in the town and hundreds of thousands of cars at home, but his parents are just workers, and it took him most of his life to get what he is now. They can't get 200 thousand bride price, so they borrow money from relatives and sell cars as bride price. This behavior alone can tell that the man really wants to marry the woman, otherwise they wouldn't go to so much trouble to borrow money. The man is not a rich boy, not that he is unwilling to give so much money, but the truth is that he has no money, and you suddenly ask for an increase of 30 thousand. Where to collect 30 thousand? Besides, you asked for an increase of 30 thousand on the wedding day. Even if you say this request in advance, the man can be prepared! The woman's house is really too much. This marriage is like a deal. If you can earn more, you will feel more.

02. The woman didn't think from the man's point of view. Besides, this woman is too much. The woman embarrassed the man by asking his parents difficult questions. She never thinks about men's situation and buys and sells herself as an article. To put it bluntly, girls think the man has to give so much money. It is not easy for her to think only of her parents. She has never considered that it is not easy for the man's family to collect enough 1.5 million bride price, but if she can stand up and tell her parents, she will not be so stiff. What's more, it is the woman who wants to marry the man, not the woman's parents who want to marry the man. The woman can completely refuse such excessive demands from her parents, but it is too selfish for her to let her parents do so. To put it bluntly, the man can marry you because he loves you, not because you are worth it!

The bride really deserved it, and she didn't deserve sympathy at all.