Specific steps: 1: First, talk to the matchmaker about marriage. If both men and women have no opinion, consider getting engaged. Of course, both men and women are embarrassed to express directly, and they all send messages through matchmakers.

If both parties think it over, they will get engaged. The specific joining method is as follows.

: the man prepares gifts and takes the old man to the woman's house. The woman accepts 6000-8000 RMB ("bride price money") and 1000-2000 RMB from the man for dinner. (When you are engaged, you should eat flowers at the woman's house.) In addition, when you are engaged, you should charge 660 yuan for pouring water (girls pour water for guests), 880 yuan for formalities (men and women exchange engagement tokens, mostly a shirt or something), 660 yuan for clothes (the man buys clothes for the woman, frankly asking you for money) and 200 pocket money to 300 yuan (the younger generation deliberately makes things difficult for you to have fun) until you eat and drink. Postscript: this kind of engagement is often very unreliable, and sometimes a word can ruin the marriage. If the woman returns the money to the man, it means engagement. Bye. Sad society.

3. If the two parties are going to get married, the matchmaker will propose marriage, usually around the age of 20 (it's a big deal to fine a sum of money, and there is no task for the morning ceremony these days). I don't know the specific steps of getting married. Too much trouble. We haven't tried it yet, hehe.

Of course, this is just the traditional method. Now there is also free love here. After all, society is open. There is also a kind of travel marriage, that is, the two sides live together and there is no way out. As long as you give the woman a few dollars, it is marriage. The key is that you can play with a girl's heart.

My family lives in Yonghe Township, Anyang, only a few miles away from Cuijiaqiao. I believe there won't be much change. Besides, I just got engaged to a girl in a neighboring village last month. Feelings are ok. That's right. Go to work at her home every day. Tired of my white-faced scholar,,, hehe. I can't help it Who wants us to go? I QQ383824644

I hope I can make friends with you, and I also hope that all shall be well.