1. communicate in advance: inform relatives and friends of the decision to cancel the wedding as soon as possible so that they can adjust their plans and arrangements. You can notify them by phone, text message or email.
2. Frankly explain the reasons: You can choose to communicate honestly with your relatives and friends about the reasons for canceling the wedding. The reason can be that there are irreconcilable differences in marriage, or that temporary decisions need more time to consider and prepare.
3. Provide support for relatives and friends: Family and friends may feel confused, disappointed or heartbroken. Try to understand, give them support and comfort, and let them know that you still care about and value this relationship.
4. Consider holding an informal event: To make up for the regret of canceling the wedding, consider holding an informal event, such as a small party, family dinner or a trip. This can provide an opportunity for everyone to continue to get together and relieve some embarrassing and lost emotions.
5. Seek professional help: If you feel that you can't handle emotional problems alone, you can seek the help of a professional marriage counselor or psychological counselor. They can provide advice and guidance to help cope with the current difficulties.
It should be noted that the above suggestions are for reference only and should be adjusted according to the actual situation and personal needs. I hope you can find a solution that suits you as soon as possible, and I wish you a happy marriage.