Old people should not be allowed to take care of children. In today's society, many children are raised by grandparents or grandparents. Although parents want to take care of themselves, they have to be taken care of by the elderly because of economic pressure. However, there are great problems in intergenerational education. Old people's educational concept and doting psychology will make children grow up unhealthy. Therefore, no matter how busy, parents must take time to accompany and educate their children.

First, the educational concept of the elderly is relatively backward. Many elderly people are relatively backward because of their low education level and different life years. For example, they don't attach importance to intellectual development and don't understand early education. Moreover, due to the occlusion of the living environment, they can't guide their children and stop some seemingly dangerous things, which suppresses their imagination and creativity. In addition, the elderly will be more tolerant of their children. After making another mistake, they will stop their parents' strict education. Over time, children will hide behind such connivance, refuse to accept their parents' education, form bad habits, and even become hostile to their parents, which will lead to the deterioration of family relations and affect their healthy development.

Second, the elderly tend to spoil the younger generation. Life is hard, so when they have grandchildren, they will want to give their children everything they have never experienced, such as buying whatever their children want, and chasing after them when they are independent, so that they will not suffer any setbacks and grievances. Children who grow up in such an environment are either selfish, arrogant or introverted and have nothing.

Third, parents must highlight their role. No matter how busy parents are, they should also have time to accompany, care for and educate their children. All these require the personal efforts of parents. They can't give everything to the elderly, just cooperate with each other, understand each other, and find a way to get along in balance, so that children can grow up better.