Text: a small speech, from the unrestrained and frank feelings.

Just waiting for you.

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Now many parents are urging marriage, fearing that their children will be left behind and that they will not have a good home in the end.

In particular, when many parents are urging marriage, they think that two people will get the certificate first and do it when they are ready for the wedding. This is also more practical, and it is really together.

Many girls also have the idea that since two people have been together for so many years, their feelings have already arrived there and they are eager to get married.

Even if he gets the license first, the man will definitely get everything ready.

The fact is, not all cases are as simple as these simple girls think, and some girls are the same, but they divorced directly the next day.

This is what Sun Fang did, but she wanted to remind the girls with her own personal experience. Never get a license before you get married, or you will suffer.

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Sun Fang and Li Pengfei have been together for five years, and they have known each other since they graduated from college. At first they thought they were still young, so they never thought about getting married.

Five years have passed, and now both parents are urging them to get married quickly, even if they get a license first.

Originally, the Pengfei family said it was good to let them get the license first, then buy them a house, and there was an indispensable bride price. Sun Fang saw the sincerity of Peng Fei's family and agreed.

But what she didn't expect was that when she really got the license, the tone of their family changed immediately, especially because the next day after getting the license, Sun Fang also found out that she was pregnant.

The husband's family means to wait until after giving birth, and there is no plan to buy them a house.

Sun Fang, still immersed in the joy of getting married and having children, realized that he had been cheated by the Pengfei family.

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Sun Fang's parents also advised her to compromise, but Sun Fang couldn't stand it, mainly because her husband's family had broken their word and had agreed on something, but when she really got the license, her tone changed, and Sun Fang naturally could not accept it.

So Sun Fang directly filed a divorce with Pengfei. Seeing Sun Fang's attitude is so firm, Pengfei also knows that he can't convince him at all. I can only go to the Civil Affairs Bureau with Sun Fang.

After the divorce, Sun Fang went to the hospital and gave birth to a baby. Originally, she intended to leave the child behind, but the thought of not being able to give the child a complete home in the future forced her to do so.

However, after the divorce, Sun Fang was labeled as a second marriage, and perhaps girls who had never been married once were popular.

However, in Sun Fang's mind, it is better to be willing but unable to do so in the future, and he can't do such stupid things again in the future, otherwise he will devote his whole life to it and never see what it will be like in the future.

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Many people don't understand Sun Fang's behavior. They all think that if Sun Fang is not so headstrong, it may be improved in the future, and it is impossible for her in-laws to see that they have no house to live in the street.

But Sun Fang also has her reasons. In fact, in Sun Fang's mind, the main reason is that the Pengfei family are cheating on their marriage, and they have no sincerity at all.

In fact, they can't afford a house at all, so they came up with such a method. They thought it was enough to trick Sun Fang into it, but what they didn't expect was that Sun Fang's character was so tough that they were caught off guard.

Like Sun Fang, Kohane has been with her boyfriend for many years, and naturally she is urged to get married by her family.

Mainly because the two of them have been together for so many years, many people think they will be together, so their parents advised them to get a license first.

Even though relatives and friends kept urging her to get married, Kohane didn't compromise, mainly because she found more and more shortcomings in Daqiang, and felt that this man had no promise now, let alone a better life in the future, and had no confidence.

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So he did the opposite. He didn't marry him, but chose to break up.

Many people may be shocked, but in her view, this is normal. After all, love is a bitter gourd. If you feel unhappy, there is no need to continue.

Wait until after breaking up with Daqiang, Kohane also met several objects, but none of them satisfied her.

Many people around her told her that she is not young now, it is not easy to find, don't be so capricious, and don't always let her temper come.

But Kohane didn't listen to them, and felt that it was more important to make himself happy.

Kohane didn't insist in vain. At Kohane's insistence, she successfully found a man who she thought was very suitable. The man agreed with her through three views, and they got along well.

Instead of asking her to get the certificate first, her boyfriend went through the necessary procedures, got engaged, got a bride price, and then got the certificate of the ceremony and prepared a house and a car for her.

Kohane proved with his own practical actions that he must not get a license first, otherwise he will definitely get nothing in the end and mix with youth in vain. This is the saddest thing.

Xiaoyan said: I believe many girls are anxious to get married, but the man is not in a hurry, but the man will ask for a certificate first, and the woman has no experience, so it feels quite good.

If so, you must not agree to the man's request. He won't give you a bride price, nor will he agree to the material conditions such as an RV, and directly tell you about the license.

It means that he just set a trap for you, just trying to be empty-handed. Don't let him succeed.

In fact, it does not mean that the man is required to buy a house and a car, all the material conditions are ready, and even the man is ruined for marriage. I believe that not all women will have such an idea.

What women want is an attitude of men. If they don't mention it, it means that the man and his family don't pay enough attention to the woman, or don't give her enough respect, and no one will be happy.

As a woman, I still hope you are reserved and don't always rush, otherwise things may be unimaginable in the future and you will be wronged when you enter the door. Your parents raised you and didn't want to see you wronged.

So don't marry yourself without knowing it. If not, it's really serious, which may involve your happiness for the rest of your life. I hope all women will think it over.

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