Then, after knowing clearly, I will personally come to the door to negotiate with the woman's parents, or negotiate with her parents. From my contact, I am sure that as long as I can make a living, I should look at the woman's parents, be diligent in my hands and feet, walk correctly, and don't say some words, spoken language and difficult language that are difficult for the older generation on the Internet!
What you said about the meeting ceremony has not been decided yet.
generally speaking
A man's words can mean one in a million 1000 1.
The bride price is usually given at the time of engagement. You can discuss the quantity of cigarettes and alcohol with each other in advance, such as 6 cigarettes, 6 cases of wine and 6 cocks.
There are also customs in rural areas: take a rooster and a hen to the woman's house and take the mother away; Two fish are taken to the woman's house, one is taken away, which means swimming around, two elbows and feet are taken to the woman's house and one is taken away. This must be discussed in advance.
As long as both sides have no opinions.
Marrying a daughter in the country is like selling a daughter. As long as you give money to satisfy the woman's parents, that is, you obviously want money, the daughter is yours. Usually, the woman's family will make a fortune, and the married daughter will splash water.
There is no fixed standard for bride price, depending on the family conditions of both sides, so that both families can accept it.
Cities and counties are similar. If the woman marries far away or in the countryside, it is estimated that there will be more or higher requirements.
The four words summed up are: discuss and do it.