1, pick up relatives

Different from what we often see when the groom picks up the bride at the wedding site, the man's adoption means that the woman arranges the wedding car to pick up the groom at the man's house, or arranges the prospective groom to stay at the woman's house the day before the wedding, and the groom takes the bride to the wedding site on the wedding day to hold the wedding ceremony.

2. Ceremony

At the wedding, the husband's adoption is basically the same as the bride's adoption by the groom. Mainly, the person presiding over the wedding will ask the groom if he wants to marry the bride. From then on, he will take care of her, be her support and love her for life. It may be changed to whether the bride is willing to marry the groom as a husband, and then as the groom's wife, stay together for life and so on.

1. What are the rules for the man to insert the door backwards?

1. In the past, because there were no men in some women's homes, or because the women's homes were in good condition and the men were poor, the men's foster daughters-in-law families would take turns to get married, and the men "married" into the women's homes. The first one lived in the women's homes, and the second one had the woman's surname. The third man supported and took care of the elderly at home, and these people could not go home on the fourth New Year.

2. However, there are differences in different places. In some areas, it is almost the same as marrying a woman, because after adoption, the man only lives in the woman's house, and everything else is the same as marrying a woman. The child is named after him. It is not difficult to recruit a son-in-law in modern times. Just change your place of residence.

China's concept of carrying on the family line is the main reason why she chose her son-in-law. It means that the man goes to the woman's house and the child takes the mother's surname. At first, it was the matriarchal family marriage system, which was the development of ancient marriage customs such as wife's residence and service marriage. There are two main reasons for the continuation of son-in-law adoption:

First, the woman needs to work and support the elderly;

Second, the man's family is poor and can't marry, so he can only marry the woman's family as a hostage. The form of son-in-law adoption in Qin and Han dynasties has the nature of "son-in-law clothing" After the Song Dynasty, the son-in-law became a kind of "son-in-law's replacement" and "son-in-law's pension". When the daughter-in-law had no son, the son-in-law came to the door to continue the patriarchal clan system, supplement the labor force and provide for the elderly with the daughter-in-law.

Now men and women are equal and monogamous, and the surname is decided by both parties through consultation. It doesn't matter whether a man marries a woman or a woman marries a man, that is, there is no such thing as "inserting the door backwards", just living in a different place.

Legal basis:

Article 1046 of the Civil Code of People's Republic of China (PRC).

Marriage should be completely voluntary by both men and women, and it is forbidden for either party to force the other, and no organization or individual may interfere.

Article 1047

The age of marriage should not be earlier than 22 for men and 20 for women.

1048th lineal blood relatives or collateral blood relatives within three generations are prohibited from getting married.

Article 1049

Both men and women who want to get married should apply for marriage registration in person at the marriage registration office. Those who meet the requirements of this law shall be registered and issued a marriage certificate. The marriage relationship is established when the marriage registration is completed. Those who have not registered for marriage shall re-register.

Article 1050

After registered marriage, according to the agreement between men and women, the woman can become a member of the man's family, and the man can become a member of the woman's family.