First, take the girl to her home to meet her parents. At this time, parents should give her a gift. As for the amount of money, it depends on the strength of the man. When engaged, the man should prepare a bride price, which can be thousands or tens of thousands. It depends on the coordination between the two sides. There are also many people who don't want money, but in today's society, they should at least buy a ring and a new dress for girls, and the rest depends on their own strength.