In Zunyi, Guizhou, a 72-year-old grandmother held a wooden stick to protect her grandson in order to prevent her marriage from hurting her children. According to the description of the groom's father, the son grew up with his grandmother and had a very good relationship.
This practice of children's grandmothers has also attracted praise from young friends, especially those who have suffered from marriage. In the past, "marriage" was a lively activity. Let's get together, say something interesting and do something interesting to make the wedding full of enthusiasm and let others feel this rare celebration.
But now the scene of marriage is slowly changing. Earlier, it was reported on the Internet that in front of a hotel in Kaifeng City, Henan Province, a groom was pulled by a friend who attended the wedding, leaving only an "inner library". That's not all. Later, the group locked the groom in an iron cage and threw eggs and green paint at him. This behavior caused passers-by to take pictures, and the scene was once very embarrassing.
This kind of marriage is not uncommon, and another example is the scene that happened in Shandong before. A groom was actually hung by a crane, and then several people next to him "sprayed her" with high-pressure water guns. Seeing this report on the news at that time really refreshed my three views. "I didn't expect this kind of operation." Suddenly I feel that the groom doesn't know anyone. Are these "friends" really friends?
Also, in 17, the media reported that a bridesmaid escaped "chasing" and shoving in order to avoid vulgar marriage, and finally fell downstairs because the railing behind her was broken. There are many such things, one after another constantly challenging our cognition.
The wedding should be a solemn and beautiful ceremony, but it has become a place for some people to show their selfish desires. They don't respect the parties to the wedding and other people attending the wedding. It is really hateful to constantly challenge our order and moral bottom line.
Seeing this, everyone can better understand the behavior of the old woman holding a wooden stick to protect her grandson. She is afraid that vulgar marriage will hurt her grandson.
And if you want to effectively stop this vulgar marriage, I think the bride and groom should first make it clear to the participating friends that they are not married, or simply invite friends over. Secondly, it is necessary to arrange special personnel in advance to prevent and stop this kind of marriage and love behavior. After all, sometimes this kind of occasion really appears at the wedding scene, and it is not convenient for the parties to stop it.
Relevant departments should also strictly control vulgar marital quarrels and punish those responsible for causing bad social impact, so as to achieve the fundamental prevention and control effect.