Hehe, it seems that you don't know the customs of Shanghai. In Shanghai, you only pay attention to dinner. At noon, you don't need any process. You can eat it at home below or in jiaozi. You can eat in a small restaurant or KFC. But remember, the bride, groom, bridesmaid and best man should eat at home.

May 2 1 just got married, which was arranged by a professional wedding company. Now I'll tell you the process for your reference:

1, get up early in the morning to decorate the building (that is, where the wedding car will come in), pull ribbons, tie balloons, paste happy characters, etc. According to your preference, you can also put a happy word under the gate.

2. Tie up the wedding car when it arrives, then put on a formal suit and have some breakfast, and get on the bus with the best man to pick up the bride. At this time, the groom must bring the bride's bouquet. Don't forget! If it's not far, pick it up at10: 30-11:00 in the morning. Before going, the bride should also start to make up with the bridesmaid and mother-in-law (the night before the wedding, the bride and you must never share the same room, otherwise it will be unlucky. If the bride is not from Shanghai, she can stay in the hotel for one day.

When you get to the bride, set off firecrackers and then go upstairs. The maid of honor will definitely not open the door. They should give you a hard time first. The groom should prepare not less than five small red envelopes, not too many, 100-200. Of course, if you have more money, you will be more stylish and buy off the bridesmaids.

After entering the room, let the bride sit on the bed first. You kneel down and offer a bouquet of flowers to propose marriage, and then the bride takes the bouquet, which is considered as a proposal.

5. Then, pay homage to your parents, let the bride's parents sit on you and let the bride serve you tea. Call your parents when you offer tea, and then your parents-in-law will have a son from that moment and give you a big red envelope (usually at least 5000 in Shanghai).

6. Prepare jujube lotus seed soup, let your parents-in-law serve you bowls, and you and the bride feed each other. One thing to remember is that you should feed the bride a jujube first and watch the bride spit the jujube pit in your hand. Then you put the jujube stones in an empty red envelope prepared in advance and put them in your pocket. Consciousness means that it will be sweet in the future, and then the bride will feed you lotus seeds for a while, which means giving birth early. It's okay here at the bride's house. Everyone is going back to the groom's house.

7. Remember to set off firecrackers before two people get on the wedding car and walk across the border. Everyone knows that the bride should wear a wedding dress.

8. When we arrived at the groom's house, the mobile phone informed us that firecrackers began to be set off downstairs and the bride and groom got off the bus and went upstairs.

9. In the same way, when you bring tea to the man's parents and call them parents, instead, the groom brings tea to the bride, and the bride calls the man's parents, and the elders also give big red envelopes, and then eat lotus seed soup.

10. Even if it's over here, let's have a rest and have lunch later. If you invite a photographer to lunch, you can shoot on location.

1 1. In the afternoon, everyone will go to the hotel. There is no need to set off firecrackers at this time. The motorcade will March in a neat way and try not to break.

12, the hotel welcomes guests at the door of the bride and groom and greets them in.

13, usually at 5: 58, the ceremony is called by the master of ceremonies, and then the music is played, and the bride and groom enter.

14, the couple swore, exchanged rings, read each other's vows, poured champagne and drank a glass of wine, and the first scene was over.

15. The master of ceremonies announced that the newcomers would enter the stadium again. At this time, the master of ceremonies can ask some questions, such as what the bride likes about the groom and how she met him, then cut the cake and light a candle tower if possible. Finally, the bride throws a bouquet (it is forbidden to do it without authorization from the time the bride welcomes guests), and the girl who receives the bouquet can speak on the stage, and the second scene is over.

16 finally, the couple went to each table to propose a toast and send cigarettes. At this time, the best man will stop drinking. There are basically three scenes. Every bride wears different clothes, the first wedding dress, the second dress and the third Tang suit.

17. Finally, if the couple are not drunk, they will send the guests away and others will enter the new house.

PS: Anyway, writing these details is a bit rough. It's too difficult to write. See for yourself.