For women, the biggest harm in marriage is the ignorance of men at the expense of their wives.

A man who doesn't know filial piety actually doesn't treat his wife as family at all. Once the mother-in-law conflicts with her daughter-in-law, even if she knows that her mother is wrong, she should cover up her fault and wronged her wife.

They never care about their wives' feelings. In fact, their IQ and EQ are very low, at least they are stupid in dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which will only make the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law worse and worse.

My neighbor Aunt Chen is a cheerful and enthusiastic person, but she is indifferent to her wife.

When we all said that his wife was pitiful, some older people around her said, "No pity. Think about what he did to Aunt Chen when he was young. If he had divorced him long ago. "

It turns out that Aunt Chen's wife was a simple and filial person when she was young. Aunt Chen suffered a lot because she obeyed her mother's wishes too much. Therefore, now Aunt Chen is somewhat indifferent to her wife, and he dares not complain about anything. After all, what she did was too hurtful.

Aunt Chen said, "In your old age, your hard life has just begun" to remind those men who don't understand filial piety.

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You really don't understand how terrible a man who has never experienced it is. Aunt Chen has a deep understanding.

What a man who doesn't know filial piety says to his wife the most are "My mother is not easy" and "What's wrong with you?"

Every woman wants to find a man with a strong heart to be her husband, so that she can protect herself for life, but when falling in love, we may not see clearly the stupid and filial faces of some men.

If a man never cares about you, understands you, and only cares about his parents, then you'd better not marry such a man.

A foolish and filial person always takes his mother's advice as the standard in life. It is difficult for them to understand how much their actions hurt their wives, and they have never put themselves in their wives' shoes.

For him, parents are always right, and wives are never as hard as relatives, because you are always an outsider. When you have a conflict with your mother-in-law, you don't have to expect her to speak from a fair standpoint.

Being frail and sick in old age is really more bleak than no one to support the elderly, and life in the future will not be too easy.

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If a man can't carry it clearly, a woman will suffer.

If a woman doesn't meet a man who doesn't know filial piety, she can't understand and appreciate the pain and injustice. Some people even think women are unreasonable.

As a man, when dealing with the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, a bowl of water should be flat and not inclined. Your mother has a hard life, which has nothing to do with your wife. Don't always want to tell your wife how hard your mother works. Your mother is not easy anymore. That's your father's problem.

But what about your wife? His troubles are all caused by you. Because after marriage, you are his only support, except you, she is alone in her husband's family.

If you don't cherish her any more and blindly favor your mother, then your wife is really alone in this family.

When married people deal with family problems, the most correct relationship between parents, spouses and children should be spouses, children and parents. When a man doesn't know right from wrong, he just defends his mother and makes his wife feel wronged, such a marriage will not be happy.

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"Filial piety comes first" is a traditional virtue since ancient times, and blind obedience is not true filial piety.

It is right to be filial to parents, but filial piety cannot be based on wronged wives. A good man should be a double-sided adhesive at home. He has the ability to please his parents as well as protect his wife.

A good man should know that it is my duty to feel sorry for his daughter-in-law. While knowing that parents are not easy, we should also feel sorry for our lover. Don't just ask your daughter-in-law to back down. Your mother should really understand that it is not easy to have a small family, and less involved in the affairs of the young couple.

From the moment a woman marries you, you should be responsible for her, instead of making you appear filial in front of your mother, wronged her again and again and breaking her heart.

A man who doesn't know filial piety makes his wife feel wronged when he is young, and will be miserable in his later years. Remember, please always put your wife first. Only by respecting the wife can the married life be happy.