1. Carrying a basket
Dong Jia asked for a basket. When a man has a crush on a girl, he must first try his best to find out his age, personality and family education. Look at that woman from the side. If he is satisfied, he will ask the matchmaker to formally propose marriage. When proposing marriage, the matchmaker should carry a bamboo basket, which contains sugar, wine, meat and other items. Everything is in duplicate and covered with red paper. If the woman's parents don't want it, if I don't agree to this marriage, they will politely refuse it, on the grounds that the girl is too young to match, and let the matchmaker take the basket back intact. If you are interested, you will implicitly say that you will go home more when you have time and leave the basket brought by the matchmaker.
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After a period of understanding, after the two sides have reached an understanding of marriage, the matchmaker will discuss with the two families and choose a date to get engaged. Engagement is an important procedure for two families to get married, which is quite grand. On the day of engagement, the man prepared wine, meat, sugar, red cakes, clothes, incense, paper, candles, firecrackers and other items, and the matchmaker led a dozen young men and relatives to the woman's house. The wife wants to engage her daughter, entertain guests and friends, and formally announce her marriage. After the engagement, the two families officially became relatives, often walking around each other, caring and helping each other in life and production.
3. See the bride off
Married women are accompanied by two good friends of men. This is our home. These two friends are called Fujian. At the same time, the woman's brother, sister-in-law or siblings will also go to the man's historian to attend the wedding, but the woman's parents will not attend the wedding. After the wedding, the brother, sister-in-law or brothers and sisters who sent the guests and the accompanying bride will also get towels as gifts.
4. Warm up and stay up late.
After all the guests at the wedding banquet have left, before midnight, there should be a long table outside the new house, with many tables, fruits, three animals, incense sticks, red ingots, paper ingots and ancestor worship. The most prominent thing is to put a big cock with full feathers and a beautiful crown on the table, and then ask the newlyweds to bow down to their ancestors. God bless your son's early birth.