I have seen an interesting survey before. The question is: Why do you think others will betray you? There are four options, in the order of voting: curiosity, excitement, attraction, love and others.

Another question is: If you betray yourself, what do you think is the reason? According to the voting ranking, it is: love, curiosity and excitement, others, attraction.

The answer is fun! Why do others betray curiosity and excitement? Why do you change your mind because of love?

Tell a story!

Girls ask for anonymity, so let's say girls are anonymous. Anonymous girl has a boyfriend who has been talking for five years. Some time ago, she met her parents and set a date to get married. This was the case before.

An executive of her company parachuted here. The supervisor is new here. He is very kind to the anonymous girl. Anonymous girls also have a crush on him. At one time, their department often worked overtime to catch up with projects. Every time it is late, the supervisor will send the anonymous girl home. One day, they kissed.

On the second day of kissing, the executives made a high-profile confession to the anonymous girl. She didn't know what happened, so she agreed. About the previous love, although I had a secret crush for five years, I didn't tell anyone when I came to this company.

When she came home with flowers, the anonymous girl was entangled. On the one hand, she is a handsome and rich executive, with feelings and love at first sight. On the other hand, she is a boyfriend of five years. What should I do?

Marry a boyfriend who has been talking for five years, you may have to pay the mortgage all the time, marry an executive, and immediately carry and cover the villa. Her boyfriend hesitated to buy her favorite brand in the new season, but she just meowed and executives immediately put it on the desk of an anonymous girl.

These are two completely different lives.

Is it happier for a girl to marry someone she loves or to marry someone who loves herself? The real answer is harsh.

When the anonymous girl asked me, she repeatedly stressed that she and the executives were really together because of love.

I asked her, after five years of love, haven't you mentioned to your colleagues that you have a boyfriend?

An anonymous girl is afraid of affecting her promotion. Even if she is married, she will choose hidden marriage. Her boyfriend agrees with this. Therefore, her boyfriend is happily choosing a wedding company and planning the color of the wedding scene. She is also willing to talk about a love affair in public and high profile.

The wedding day is drawing near. She asked me what should I do?

I said, have you ever thought about eating pancake fruit with soy milk all your life, otherwise you wouldn't choose to marry him? However, you have tasted steak with red wine, so you are not reconciled. Once the mouth and stomach start to be greedy, they start to be picky eaters. I can't go back, and it's hard to go from extravagance to thrift. What you need is not a love, but someone who can meet your material needs. Five years is enough time to introduce your boyfriend to any of your colleagues and friends, but you haven't.

Those who have no restraint are not suitable for marriage, those who are not sure are not suitable for marriage, those who can't resist the temptation are not suitable for marriage, those who ride a donkey to find a horse are not suitable for marriage, and those who are not sensible are not suitable for marriage. Why? Because marriage is a promise not to like others.

She said sadly that she was afraid of poverty.

For an anonymous girl, this is a love that seems to have been loved until now. It's a pity that she got herself into this tangle and comforted herself with love. Most people's troubles stem from thinking about things that shouldn't belong to her.

The reason is simple: children always like new toys.

Is it happier for a girl to marry someone she loves or to marry someone who loves herself? The real answer is harsh.

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Name two things related to the story:

1, will poor couples really be sad?

I talked about a love affair where I ate 6 yuan of mala Tang and didn't want to put meat. I told my lover that I don't like chicken legs because I have no money to buy them. In order to save money for taking a taxi, I walked through the long Yanerdao Road in the middle of the night, caught up with the heavy rain and got soaked. When I returned to the rented house, I could still giggle in front of the mirror.

At that time, I was so poor that I had to smoke a cigarette twice I can't afford to buy tickets for the aquarium, so I bought cheap beach toys and piled sand on the beach with my girl for a long time. When it's hot, I can only treat her to a dollar old popsicle. When it's cold, you can only afford cartoon cotton hats from 30 yuan in Taitung Night Market. After we got married, the hat was still there. I feel really naive and silly now, but she has been wearing it for many years.

We once had a puppy. When playing with it, we accidentally cut our hand and lost a lot of blood. We needed rabies vaccine. I know that the incidence and mortality of rabies is 100%, but I have no money. At that time, my daughter-in-law had just returned to her hometown, and I wanted to hide it, but I didn't. She said angrily, go get an injection. At the CDC, I chose the cheap one, and I need not to drink or eat spicy food for a month. When I left the CDC, the sun was really bright, and I suddenly felt that my daughter-in-law said "get out" was short for "I love you".

I have never felt this way, but unlike those who have been poor together and lived in poverty, I have no determination to go on together. Poor 1 year, three years, five years, seven years, or 10 year, is it long enough? There will be countless temptations and choices along the way. As long as you make progress together, you will always have a chance to live a better life.

Before, I asked my daughter-in-law, I am not rich, and you will suffer all your life if you follow me.

My daughter-in-law pointed to the dog, pointed to me again, smiled and said, I, Wang, Fu, that's enough.

I am lucky to have married a girl from Wang Fu in my life.

Is it happier for a girl to marry someone she loves or to marry someone who loves herself? The real answer is harsh.

2. Is it happier for a girl to marry someone she loves or to marry someone who loves her?

Many people choose to marry people who love themselves. He dotes on you, follows you, accommodates you and tolerates you because he loves you. And the person you desperately want to please, finally slowly consumes the best of you.

Marriage is a chemical reaction. Marrying a person produces a way of life. If you don't have the ability to control this life, you will end this idea of getting married early. Rich people's banquets and poor people's meals are easy to serve but difficult to eat.

I want to know one thing before I get married: Would you like to live with this person in front of me? Rich or poor, can you manage to live together?

It doesn't matter who you marry. What matters is whether you can manage this relationship well. Focus on your ability, not your confidence. Marry or not, for a girl, the ability to make herself happy is more important than anything else, followed by choosing who to marry. Don't expect to marry happiness.

There is a kind of girl who will be very happy when she marries. Not that she will marry right, but that she will be happy even if she is single. She knows the way to happiness. In other words, she will live. Living like this is a positive attitude towards bitter days and a treasure and gratitude for sweet days. It's not how strong she is, but whether she only cares about her own happiness, whether she can be happier and not compare with others.

The reason is simple: adults should have the ability to bear the consequences.