When my wife and I got married, she asked us for 10 thousand yuan as a bride price, and he had nothing. For this reason, my mother is very dissatisfied with his wife and her family. My mother often satirizes my wife that her family sells her daughter and wants so many colorful gifts, but she doesn't give him a penny. A wife should feel wronged by her mother's family and never argue with her mother. No matter how much her mother loves her, she still smiles. Later, I couldn't stand it anymore. After talking to my mother several times, my mother stopped embarrassing her wife.
In the second year of marriage, my wife gave birth to a daughter, and our family was very happy. Mother also gave her daughter a big red envelope, while her parents-in-law only gave her a red envelope from 200 yuan. They also said that they would have a baby girl. Just look. Listening to my parents-in-law's words makes me feel uncomfortable. They may not like their daughter, but my daughter should be despised for whatever reason.
After we got married, my parents-in-law often asked my wife for money, and my wife often gave money to my family without telling me. I know, but I also turn a blind eye and pretend not to know. After all, my wife is married to me, and it is also appropriate to honor my parents-in-law.
I have been married for almost ten years, and my daughter is almost nine years old. I heard from my wife that my brother-in-law was getting married, and my wife asked me how many ceremonies my brother-in-law should follow when he got married. I thought about it. In the countryside, it's no problem for us as brother-in-law to send 5 thousand. I told my wife to send 5 thousand, which is almost enough. The wife nodded in agreement.
It was my brother-in-law's wedding, and I accompanied my wife back to her family for a wedding banquet. My brother-in-law's wedding was very respectable and lively. After we finished eating, my wife asked me to help her with her mobile phone and wallet. She went to help her mother-in-law. I nodded and said yes, just sitting and waiting for my wife to go home together. At this time, I heard two people talking next to me, saying that my brother-in-law was married and my wife gave me 50 thousand. I was shocked. Didn't we agree to give 5 thousand?
We worked hard to save the 50,000 yuan to give our daughter a good study environment and prepare to go to the city to buy a house as a down payment. My wife gave it to my brother-in-law, and I was really angry. My wife came out after she was busy and told me to get ready to go home. I turned and walked back without saying a word. There are so many people here, I don't want to embarrass everyone. I'm going home to ask my wife.
When I came back, I married my wife and brother-in-law and gave me 50 thousand yuan. What's going on here? Didn't I say 5 thousand? That money is the money we saved to buy a house in the city in order to facilitate our daughter's schooling. You gave me 50 thousand directly without consulting me. Have you thought about me? Have you thought about our family? My wife said loudly that I gave my brother 50 thousand yuan when he got married. What happened? I only have that brother. You can wait two years to buy a house, and your daughter is still young.
I smiled angrily at my wife's words, knowing that my family is not rich, and I have to ignore my husband and daughter for the sake of my family. My wife's mind is at home after so many years of marriage. There is no small family like ours. Over the years, no matter how my wife helps the family, I have never stopped her. But this time, she actually felt that her brother's anxiety about marriage exceeded her daughter's anxiety about going to school and buying a house. I am really disappointed.
I always thought my wife would take care of her family as long as we have been married, but I didn't expect it to get worse. Looking at such a wife, I asked her for a divorce with a smile. My wife scolded me for not caring about humanity and morality, regardless of family ties. I ignored her and went out.
I think the reason why we are in this mess is because my wife has no principle of taking care of her family. I don't think we would do this if she had a sense of proportion. If we have money, fifty thousand dollars is not too much. But you are not rich, so how can you help your parents? And before the big right and wrong, we must also prioritize.