I think you should express your condolences. After all, the death of the old man is a big event. If your boyfriend asks you to go, you can go as long as you think he is your future husband. If you want to go, you can discuss it with your boyfriend to see if you want to go, or if it is appropriate. It's best to be friends.

Your family doesn't want you to go because they don't think they are engaged. They don't think your relationship has been settled yet, right? I think the family's behavior may also be afraid of what the man said. Because according to common sense, you really don't have anything to do yet. It's just a simple boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. I think if you are sure that you have a future and the man lets you go, you can go!

Engagement taboo

Avoid access. Getting married is a happy event. In the traditional marriage custom in China, it is unlucky to visit friends after marriage. It is not good for some newlyweds to thank their relatives and friends for their help after the wedding.

In fact, there is no taboo for brides to visit relatives and friends on their honeymoon, which has existed since ancient times. People think that visiting relatives and friends after marriage will bring misfortune, and this ominous situation will take another month to eliminate. Therefore, to be on the safe side, it is best not to visit relatives and friends within one month of the bride's marriage, especially those with old people, and pay special attention.