I can understand your feeling. But I have a word to say to you: there is nothing between husband and wife that can't be said, and there is nothing that can't be quarreled, because you are going to live a lifetime, and you can't be careless and work together anyway! Believe it or not, don't expect any man to put his heart on you after marrying you. Where is his heart? It's still there!

Tell me my opinion. First, you said you were bullied, your husband didn't want to stand up for you, and his stepsister was bullied, so he went to find someone to fight for his life. Why don't you ask him why he did it? As I said above, there is nothing between husband and wife that cannot be said or asked. If you ask, the answer may not be as bad as you think. He didn't go in a big way. Did he really fight with someone? I think he just had to face his sister's face. Maybe he's angry with his sister, too. He can tell you straight away that he doesn't want to fight, which probably just means that he regards you as one of his own! Unfortunately, these are all my guesses. Because you didn't communicate in time, now everything can only be guessed and sulked by your whimsy.

Second: You said that your husband bought you a gift to take care of other people's affairs on Valentine's Day, and you never bought you the jade bracelet you wanted, which made you feel very uncomfortable. This is really unnecessary. Men are more pragmatic (for example, when my husband got married, he left the team without an invitation). He said he would save money to buy me a gold necklace. After listening to this sentence, I am happy. He also said that if he needed money in an emergency in the future, he could sell the gold. There is no point in spending money on the ostentation and extravagance of the team! You know, I have been with my husband since I graduated from high school. It has been nearly 10 years since we fell in love and got married. My husband can't even remember when our wedding anniversary is, let alone expect him to buy me a present. Hehe, most men learn romance to cater to talented women. It's really hard for them.

Finally: Anyway, I think you can get a marriage certificate and sleep together. You all have feelings. There are some contradictions between lovers. It is normal and necessary to be stingy together. I often quarrel with my husband.

I hope we can help each other and comfort each other when things go wrong in the future. Wish you a happy life! ~