Let's talk about whether it is necessary to get married when the bride price collapses. Depending on the specific situation, how to talk about the collapse method, the following situations may generally occur:
Let's talk about the collapse of the sky-high bride price
This is the problem that most people talk about the collapse of bride price now. In many places, the bride price is getting higher and higher, which ordinary families can't afford.
For example, the bride price in Jiangxi is getting higher and higher. There was a news before that the bride price was 680 thousand. Think about how many marriageable young people can get the money now. If you take out all your parents' pensions, it may not be enough. You have to borrow from the east and the west to get a wife. Is it necessary to get married?
1. If a girlfriend insists on paying a high price for a bride price from her parents, there is no need to get married.
Last time I saw a news, a woman knelt down and asked for a boyfriend. Eight years later, she broke up like this. What should she do? The boyfriend chose to break up because the woman's family wanted 480 thousand, and he couldn't afford it. He talked to the woman's family, but the talks broke down.
The woman's parents said: "Don't say 65,438+10,000, even 65,438+10,000 can't be less."
Eight years of love, because the bride price both collapsed, the man's family really can't afford this bride price and can only choose to break up.
Many people will say, isn't a woman's best youth worth 40 thousand to 80 thousand in these eight years? Why price yourself? In these eight years, the feelings paid by two people are the same. Feelings are not transactions, and breaking up is also a helpless choice.
Don't you know anything about the man's family these eight years? How much money did they save after eight years together?
The sky-high bride price is not used to measure whether the other party loves you or not, and love can't stand tossing.
You don't discuss with your parents whether the bride price can be less, but choose to ask your boyfriend for these bride prices. Have you thought about who you want to live with in the future?
Even if the man borrows money everywhere for this relationship, will the woman pay her debts together after marriage?
Marriage is not a transaction, but two people live a good life together and have a bright future.
It is necessary for a girlfriend to persuade her parents to give less bride price, and it is necessary for a girlfriend to get married on her boyfriend's side.
There are still many women who are very wise. Knowing that the local bride price is high, they will discuss it with their parents. After all, in the future, two people will live together and return the bride price together. The quality of life is not high, why give such a high bride price?
Such a high bride price makes women feel like buying out their loved ones. Some older people always say that the water spilled by their daughters after marriage will not be family members, but relatives. I guess that's what it means
My friend Xiaoling and her boyfriend have been in love for 7 years and are about to enter the marriage hall. When it comes to the bride price, Xiaoling's local bride price is relatively high, and this bride price will not be taken to the man as the dowry of the woman.
At that time, Xiaoling's parents offered 280 thousand, excluding three gold medals, adding up to at least 300 thousand. She has always believed that parents should not ask for a high bride price and will consider their future marriage life.
Xiaoling knows her boyfriend's family and can't afford that much money. At that time, they planned to take a bride price of 654.38 million yuan, and then worked hard for two years to borrow some money for a down payment to buy a suite. The bride price broke all their plans.
Later, Xiaoling chatted with her parents about how hard Xiaoling and her boyfriend worked and finally got married.
After the bride price talks, it depends on the attitude of the girlfriend. Her attitude often determines whether the two can enter the marriage hall.
Second, talk about the collapse of the house.
This reason is more complicated, according to the specific situation.
When it comes to the house, it is generally whether the woman's name should be added to the house before marriage. This also involves how many suites the man has at home. What is the transfer method? Some people promised to transfer, but after marriage.
Some women may ask for a transfer before marriage, and the in-laws also have their own ideas. The two families always talk about bride price.
This needs to be discussed in detail. There are too many problems involved to be directly explained.
Whether rich or poor, it is not money that determines the happiness of marriage, but a person's personality.
The bride price is just a form, and it is auspicious. Why bother all the time? The important thing is that they will face the future life together, and happily join hands in the marriage hall and grow old together.