There are 66,000, 88,000 bridesmaids here, and of course there are hundreds of thousands, mostly according to the man's family conditions and looks. If the man looks a little worse, there will generally be more bride price. Of course, when the bride price arrives at the man's house, the parents will let the daughter take all the bride price, some may take half, and some special parents will leave it all!
Second: engagement gift
1. The man's family needs to buy gifts and bring them to the woman's family on the day of engagement, because the woman's family wants to send relatives, friends and neighbors. If the man doesn't buy enough, the woman has to pay for it herself. Generally, there is nothing left after delivery. You need to buy 100 boxes of better gifts. We all buy eight-treasure porridge, Wahaha, six walnuts, Jiaduobao, Telunsu, ham sausage and some fruits here.
2. The man's family needs to buy chicken and fish, which must be alive, which means good luck for more than a year. You'd better buy a pair. The woman's home should be sent to her close relatives, such as grandma, aunt, menstruating and menstruation. The man's family still wants to buy pork, and now they all buy a piggy bank and put 1000, which is equivalent to buying pork.
Third: the engagement matchmaker
In our country, most people who come to the woman's house are men, and the matchmakers are generally authoritative and prestigious people in the village. Both men and women find six or eight matchmakers, and the woman matchmaker needs to pick up relatives. After the man came, he was received, and the matchmakers of both men and women sat together for dinner. Now they all eat at the woman's house, and the man needs to take the money for eating.
The man needs to buy it for the woman.
The man needs to buy new clothes for the woman, four sets of bed sheets (to be taken away when getting married), a suitcase, four samples (red square towel, red comb, soap, hand cream) and so on.
The woman needs to buy it for the man.
Women also need to buy some new clothes for men.