After all, the wedding arrangements are really tiring, and my mother-in-law is willing to help, which also shows that she is really good for you and wants to give you what she thinks is best. I think it is a very happy thing to have such a mother-in-law to hold her wedding, and I am also very happy to have such a good mother-in-law.

Of course, some young people may have different views on this. I think if you don't like your mother-in-law to arrange your wedding, then you may take the following measures:

1. Pay your own money and take the initiative.

As the saying goes, "the economic base determines the superstructure". Nowadays, many new couples will ask their parents and in-laws to pay for the wedding because of their limited financial resources and energy. Even if this is not what they want, it's really hard to say. But if you pay your own money and do it yourself, you can take the initiative in words, and you can make your own decisions on big and small matters at the wedding.

If you can do everything by yourself, your parents will be very relieved. However, it should be noted that even if you contribute your own money, you can't completely ignore the ideas and opinions of your parents and in-laws. After all, family harmony is the most important thing, so communicate with your parents and respect their ideas before planning a wedding. If there is a quarrel over the wedding, it will not be worth the candle.

2. Communicate and negotiate with parents and elders, and combine ideas into one.

For example, parents and mother-in-law want the wedding to be red and festive, but if you want western style and style, you can choose a new Chinese wedding, which combines fashion and tradition just right. For example, parents and mother-in-law want to send cigarettes and wine to older guests, but you want to send flowers, fruits, tea and handmade soap to younger guests. You can prepare two accompanying gifts separately.

In a word, getting married is a happy event. If the elders are willing to help you arrange the wedding, there is nothing wrong with it. After all, it is also their heart. Personally, I like to leave this kind of thing to my elders. It's not a shame to have an elder to help me with my wedding, but it's very happy.