When engaged, the man gives the woman about100000 (generally not less than 65438+ 10000, depending on the family situation), and a car full of ocean, in which pork, noodles and fish are put. The woman has to pay back the full amount in cash, and she has to buy all household appliances, such as LCD TV, washing machine, computer, refrigerator, chair, microwave oven and tableware. Therefore, Yueqing people prefer boys to girls. The first is blind date, which requires an introducer. In ancient times, it was called matchmaker, matchmaker. In modern times, it has been endowed with some characteristics of the times, such as marriage agencies and friendship clubs. Introducers know each other's family wealth, personal education, work unit, annual income, appearance and height, and finally their hobbies (generally this last item is for the two parties who need to be paired to know for themselves, but the fact is that everyone thinks it is too much trouble to check this item and hurried by). Due to the high housing prices in Wenzhou and the generosity of Wenzhou people, most young men who come to Wenzhou to start businesses have unfair competition with local youth on the first point of the blind date rules. After the villagers succeed, the next step is engagement. According to Wenzhou custom, engagement is bound to send wedding candy to relatives and friends. According to the current market, the so-called wedding candy is a big red envelope, which contains peanuts, beef jerky, biscuits, cakes, chocolates, many kinds of milk candy, and a red envelope from 50 yuan. This means that you have received a "big candy", that is to say, after receiving the wedding candy, you have to start preparing red envelopes with a price of 1000 yuan or more. Heavy! Marriage is a great event in life. For the wedding that night, the bride worked hard for a month: choosing a wedding dress, beauty, losing weight, doing hair and makeup. Finally, at the wedding reception, I shuttled between the banquet hall and the dressing room every 20 minutes and changed 3-4 sets of wedding dresses. Of course, the consequence is that the guests don't know what the bride looks like, and the bride is pale with hunger, which is even more charming against the cosmetics.