In the eyes of parents, children will never grow up. Tell them with your practical actions that you can do many things instead of being controlled and never being independent. No matter how much I care, can I eat, dress, get married and have children? Many things they can't understand, do for them. Try to have a deep dialogue with your parents calmly, provided that you have figured out how to deal with it, otherwise it will be self-defeating. Waiting is youth. Since you choose to do it, try it. Even if you fail, it is glorious, bitter and sweet, because you have tried. You can have a long time to figure out what you want to do.