1, Advantages of Holding a Ceremony From a practical point of view, even if the couple doesn't want to, parents will still suggest holding a wedding. Moreover, when two people exchange rings under oath at the wedding, they give each other a sense of ceremony. If possible, you can hold a wedding so that people who love you can witness your happiness together. That's all that matters. The disadvantage of holding a wedding is that the traditional wedding is too troublesome and complicated, which makes people feel overwhelmed psychologically and physically. For example, getting married is a very private and intimate matter, and there is no need for outsiders to watch on a large scale to make the couple daunting. Moreover, parents often like to do big things, pursue scenery and ostentation and extravagance, which are not only influenced by traditional customs and culture, but also have psychological demands of saving face and comparing. 3. With the development of society, the concept of affection between people is getting weaker and weaker, especially among the new generation of young people. Fewer and fewer people visit relatives during the Spring Festival. Young people have never had such deep feelings for their loved ones since childhood. Now the rural model is completely developed in accordance with the urban model, and there will only be fewer and fewer scenes of big banquets. Many newlyweds just invite their nearest relatives and friends to the restaurant for the wedding. It's not only a matter of spending a lot of money, but also a lot of work. It can be said that if you don't have economic strength, you need to do it yourself, which is both laborious and laborious. There is no feeling between colleagues in the workplace now. It feels hypocritical to invite these people to join us. How about two people get a certificate, get together with relatives and friends at home, and then travel and get married. It is romantic and warm, and spending money on yourself is not fragrant.