Because I don't know much about those who want to cancel the bride price, but I know a lot about those who don't want it, because my wife is.

My wife was one of the first people to enter the university there. Of course, her mother also wants a high price bride price for sale. My family is also one of the few families in our village who go to college, and has won the title of poor household for many times. Now it seems that it was the darkest time before dawn in my home.

The places where our two families are located are relatively poor places, and the poorer the place, the worse the bride price. After learning about my family's situation, my mother-in-law did give the bride price a conscience price, but the problem is that even my family can't get this conscience price. This is embarrassing. At that time, my wife and I had a good relationship and my wife understood it very well.

My wife is a clumsy woman. In my eyes, she can successfully avoid all the correct answers. But at that time, she and her mother said this: How much bride price you can get from his house is your business. Whether he wants to get married or not must be your decision. It is this sentence that won the respect and trust of my family and me. His parents didn't force us either.

After more than 20 years of marriage, love may have dissipated almost long ago, but this respect and trust have always been there. Whenever there is an argument in our marriage life, I will think of this "clumsy" woman, regardless of retrogression, so I feel ashamed and take the initiative to admit defeat.

Although my mother-in-law lost her face at the bride price, in her later life, her family was the first in her village to build a house, buy a car and travel by plane ... I am using our way to let her slowly pick up her lost face.

So what I want to say when I see this is that those newlyweds who temporarily canceled their wedding because of the bride price don't know if you regret what happened at that time. Marriage must be based on love. It cannot be said that wealth is not important, on the contrary, it is very important. But when you value a person, don't just look at the present, but look at the long term. I thought of a sentence "Don't bully poor young people".

what do you think?