Marriage is a matter for two families, with only one purpose, that is, to let children live a happy and stable life. Some expenses in the wedding must be borne by the woman herself, such as the dowry of her daughter's wedding. This is the related items paid by the woman's parents and brought to the groom's house by the man's relatives on the wedding day.

Second, where do married women spend all their money?

1, daughter's dowry

goods

Dowry includes many things, such as red suitcase, children's bucket, washbasin, towel, toiletries, slippers and so on. These are all bought by girls and their parents before marriage, and they need to pay for them themselves. These items are generally red, and some places are tied with red silk thread, indicating that the marriage life is prosperous and smooth.

bedclothes

Four-piece set, six-piece set and eight-piece set are usually selected when placing articles, according to local customs. Colors are red, pink, purple, yellow and other bright colors. I suggest that you can choose one according to the climate, spring, summer, autumn and winter. It takes a long time after all.

gold ornaments

In addition to the groom buying jewelry for the girl, which is what we call golden wedding gold ornaments, the bride's family can also prepare gold ornaments for her daughter. Of course, it depends on the financial situation of each family. Generally speaking, it is parents' blessing to their children and their wedding wishes.

2, the wedding room down payment

I often hear elders say that it is too expensive to get married now and I can't afford a house at all. If the two families decide to buy a house for the couple after marriage, then the man and the woman will each pay part of the down payment, and the rest will be borne by the couple every month. At present, housing prices are high, and buying a house has almost used up all my savings. The woman gives part to relieve stress. After all, it is for the sake of children's happiness.

3. Wedding expenses

There are generally two kinds of wedding expenses. One is that the two parties hold a wedding reception together, which can be solved by the groom's family or separately. The most important thing is to look at the opinions of both parents. On the other hand, separate banquets are common in rural areas, or there are many relatives and friends. After consultation, it was decided to hold separate wedding banquets. At this time, the woman will pay for the banquet. The specific situation requires two families to sit down and communicate well. Peace is the most important thing to abide by one premise.

4. New cars

Nowadays, cars have become a common means of transportation. If you want to buy a new car for the bride and groom, if the woman's economic conditions permit, her parents can pay for it. Bian Xiao suggested that it is not necessary to pay the full amount. It is best to let them repay themselves every month, increase some burdens, and let them feel the hardships of being parents.