1. Friendly communication. Husband and wife should strengthen communication awareness, maintain good neighborliness and friendship, and maintain family harmony. Once there is a dispute between them, they should express their sincere opinions in time, try their best to solve it, and don't have conflicts over meaningless trifles.

2. Give play to the function of family governance. On the one hand, parents should give full play to their governing role, be modest, be honest with their feelings, guide their children's thoughts and morals, and make them know how to respect their parents' feelings and make correct choices.

3. Change the wedding culture. In the process of wedding preparation, families should avoid some extravagant, expensive or deliberately competitive preparations and find ways to reduce the pressure of wedding culture in order to eliminate the phenomenon of marriage quarrels.

4. Timely help from parents and friends. When there are contradictions or disputes within the family, parents and friends should make suggestions in time to help husband and wife handle things rationally and communicate with each other so as not to get out of control.