Like you, I found a husband in Leiyang rural area. My in-laws never asked my husband when he would get married. We all got married in my house, as if it had nothing to do with his family. There are many other things that I can't finish at once. I didn't give us any money anyway. My family is very rich. Buying a house loan is my family's business. Other contributors are my family, but we should support them. There is also a very strict custom to get married in Leiyang rural areas, but generally the son who has left college will not be taken care of! They are by no means looking down on you. They must respect the outside, especially the working daughter-in-law, and think that you are rich and capable! Moreover, Leiyang was really poor before, and it was really difficult to train a college student. Leiyang rural areas generally have bad folk customs and are not very good at being human, so it is good for those who stay in the local area not to engage in your money! However, people who have studied in Leiyang rural areas are very capable and good at being human! So, from a point of view, if your husband is kind to you, forget it, otherwise you will fall into endless troubles.