Although the man's family condition is average, the woman's family condition is very good. A's father is in the real estate business and bought her two houses in Shanghai. There is little pressure to have a house, a car and a baby. This should be a very happy family. As a result, several years after giving birth to a good child, her husband "became" love rat.
Cheating+gambling, looking for a mistress outside, not going home for a long time, borrowing money everywhere with A's ID card, basically borrowing from A's relatives. Finally, A couldn't bear it any longer and decided to divorce. Her mother advised her not to have twin daughters or only one, but she decided that both daughters should follow her.
Then A began a hard life. A's mother helps her son take care of the children. She has no more energy to take care of a pair of twins, so A can only take care of herself. After the children go to school, she will do some small business. Because I am good-looking and can talk, I can earn about 1500 a day, and my life is ok.
After the outbreak at the beginning of this year, her small business was also affected and she could not do it any more. She had to chew on her old money. She found a part-time job until recently. Every morning at four or five o'clock, her children go out to wholesale flowers for a flower shop and transport them there. She earns about 250 yuan a day, so she can only cook by herself. These two children are only about 9 years old. It's so sad to think of it.
After the divorce, A's husband refused to pay any alimony, saying that the child was studying in a public school and didn't need to pay any tuition fees, and his hukou was in the suburbs, so he didn't need money. A was very angry and impulsively transferred the accounts of the two children to her ex-husband so that the children could study there. Therefore, her ex-husband didn't show up at all during that time, let alone take care of two children. Only the children's grandfather can look after them occasionally, but so can his grandfather. A's friend can't stand it anymore, and she is worried that two eight or nine-year-old girls always go to nightclubs. If something happens, it's not worth it. Finally, A transferred the child's account back and stayed with her to take care of it.
In fact, as a mother, I understand her choice. Although it must be hard to have two children with me, having such an unreliable father. I really don't want to say that the child lives with him. Even if there is more contact, I feel uneasy!
My friend said that since the divorce, she has haggard too much and looks much older. Then we sigh together, girl, if you marry the wrong person, this life is really too difficult!