If you want to hold a wedding reception in a hotel, I think you can tell your parents directly that both parents are willing to meet the reasonable requirements of their children. Explain clearly what kind of wedding you want, explain clearly the benefits of holding a wedding reception in a hotel, be reasonable, and bring your other half with you to convince your family if necessary. After all, the wedding is only once in a lifetime, so let's do it according to our own wishes. After that, contact the wedding team and book hotels, banquets and other wedding-related matters.