There is a custom in Heilongjiang that the bride should "hide from the lights" for the first three years. On the fifteenth night of the first month within three years of marriage, the new daughter-in-law is going to stay at her aunt's house, and she is not allowed to look at the lights in her husband's house or her mother's house. It is said that my father died after watching my mother-in-law's lamp; Seeing the maiden's lantern, the dead father-in-law also has the custom of "hiding from the lantern" in Henan. Folk proverbs such as "A girl looks at her mother's lamp, and her mother is so poor that she is nailed to a nail" and "On the fifteenth day of the first month, if you don't hide from the lamp, you will die first" are the reasons for the taboo of hiding from the lamp. Obviously, this is nonsense.