0 1, indicating the mother-in-law to go home and talk.
My mother-in-law read the house rules in public. I think even a good-natured daughter-in-law will feel uncomfortable! First of all, the mother-in-law makes house rules for her daughter-in-law. This is a duel. My mother-in-law wants to explain her position in the family. Daughter-in-law was married from outside. Since she entered the door, she has to obey the rules of our family. Mother is definitely closer than daughter-in-law, and daughter-in-law is just an "outsider" even if she enters the door. It doesn't matter what the daughter-in-law says. In this case, don't force it, it's not good for anyone.
Secondly, the mother-in-law "bullied" your relatives in front of others, and she did something wrong. There is a saying that "domestic dirty linen should not be publicized", which means that things at home should be solved internally. Even if the mother-in-law doesn't take the daughter-in-law personally, this is a family tradition, and the family rules should not be read out in public, so that the daughter-in-law can sign it on the spot. This is a very disrespectful performance, and it also makes the daughter-in-law very shameful! Therefore, the daughter-in-law should signal her mother-in-law to go home and say something, giving both sides a step down.
If the mother-in-law doesn't agree, she refuses to sign.
When you get home, you can discuss this family rule with your mother-in-law and try to get her to give up this idea. Everything is easy to discuss, so why make a rigid family rule? I feel embarrassed to reason with my mother-in-law, explain the pros and cons, and tell her about family rules. Then at a suitable opportunity, such as when my mother-in-law is very happy, talk to her about this problem and let her give up the idea of family rules.
03. After agreeing to talk at home, you can discuss the solution with your husband.
If the mother-in-law insists on her own ideas, she must make family rules and ask you to sign them. You can verbally refuse, but don't make the atmosphere too embarrassing and save face for the other party. Afterwards, I will go to my husband to explain the situation and ask for his understanding. After all, it's embarrassing to make family rules. Who can accept this thing now?
If the husband agrees to the family rules, consider divorce.
If your husband also thinks that his mother is right and he supports her, then you can argue with him! What is the wife used for at home? A wife needs her husband's love and support. In the matter of family rules, maybe he can solve it by talking to his mother. Why doesn't he support you? Is it in his heart that he is still a child and his mother's words are always the most important? Don't think about your wife's words? If he is a mother-in-law and listens to her instructions, then this marriage is not worth mentioning.
Some people say, "Persuade peace and don't persuade separation", but if it is doomed to be inappropriate, why bother to make do with it and let yourself be wronged? In other words, there is no need to force an unworthy marriage!