My husband's family conditions are not very good, and there is a younger brother in junior high school at home, which has a heavy burden. But he is practical and capable and loves me very much, so I chose to be with him without hesitation. We were opposed by my family, but at my insistence, my family compromised.
We developed very fast and soon reached the point of talking about marriage. Marriage must have a wedding room and a home of your own. But we just started working, and we can't afford to buy a house, so my husband and I thought about buying a house with a loan, and then slowly paying off the mortgage. But my parents didn't want to see me work so hard, so they gave us a house in their own name.
My husband and I have a home, and life has always been like this. We work hard and live a good life. Then one day, my husband's father was ill and wanted to come to the city to see a doctor. He has no place to live and wants to stay with us for a few days. In fact, I refused, because my father-in-law is a heavy smoker, and I can't smell the smoke the most, but there is nothing I can do. After all, as a child, this requirement cannot meet the needs of the elderly. That would be unfilial. It's only a few days, and I can bear it.
I thought only my father-in-law came, but my mother-in-law and my husband's brother came. Well, it's a busy home now. It's foggy all day, and they have nothing to do when they come. They stay at home every day, and rubbish is everywhere. My mother-in-law said cooking, but what I cook really can't be swallowed. A dish often takes many days to cook. She also said it was convenient to have a refrigerator.
My husband and brother are playful and often play with my computer at home, and I don't say anything. Once, he actually deleted the copy I worked so hard for all night. I scold him when I get angry. Mother-in-law and father-in-law defended her fault, protected her children and said that I cared about them. I looked at the messy home and finally broke out.
I just yelled at them to get out. This used to be our house. You're a little rude, you don't understand, and you're making a lot of smoke. I don't owe your family. Don't be cruel Then I slammed the door and went out.
I sent a message to my husband. I said to him, "I have no obligation to take care of your family." I am so angry! " "My husband quickly replied to me. He said, "This is my father, my mother, your father and your mother! Just stay with us for a few days. Why are you so busy? "
What is this? Is it my fault? I was even angrier after reading it. I don't want to live like this. I have considered divorce, but I don't want to be a second married woman. I made a decision and sent another message to my husband. I told him that I would rent out the house, and I would go back to my parents' house and let their family go wherever they wanted.
Shortly after the news was sent out, my husband called me to apologize, and my parents-in-law also said something wrong and asked me to forgive them. I suddenly relented, and I don't know if I should forgive them. what do you think?