Nowadays, bride price is a hot topic in society.
As long as I hear that a girl is engaged, I will ask you how much bride price you want in the first sentence.
After hearing whose son is engaged, the first thing that comes to mind is how much is the bride price?
No matter how much bride price a girl needs to get engaged or how much bride price a son needs to get married. It seems that everyone is used to it.
Regardless of the bride price, they are engaged. The key is whether you can get married after engagement and live happily after marriage. This is what people are most worried about.
The highest bride price in Baoji should be the northern half. Because the northern half is connected to Qingyang, Gansu, the living habits are basically the same, and the bride price in Qingyang is high, and the bride price in this area will not be low.
I don't know Baoji completely, so I can only answer this question by imagination. Whether it is correct or not needs the understanding of friends!
I am from Longxian, and I know the market best. Longxian County in Baoji has the most bride price, which is also famous in the whole province.
The bride price in the county and its vicinity is about 6.5438+0.5 million yuan, and that in other towns and villages is about 200,000 yuan. The northern part of Longxian County is close to several remote towns and villages in Gansu Province, such as Huoshaozhai, Guguan, Guanshan and Hebei. The bride price is about 250,000 yuan, and some of them have exceeded 300,000.
Many marriageable young men from poor family backgrounds have no money to get married or get married with loans. A village generally has10-more than 20 bachelors.
If there are two boys at home, it is even more difficult to get married. Many parents are 60 years old and should enjoy happiness according to their age, but the son is not married and still working hard outside in order to save money for the bride price.
Baoji Taibai, Fengxian and Linyou bride price are followed by Longxian, and there are many.
I'm from the south. Which county in Baoji has the highest bride price? Sorry, I don't know anything. No matter where the bride price is the highest, you should not be proud of it. In the final analysis, it is buying and selling marriage, and it is selling women! It is also an act of self-consolation and self-deception, but it is a bad habit left over from feudalism and the idea that men are superior to women. Because the woman's parents always feel that they have given birth to a daughter and are inferior, they must let the other party come up with a huge sum of money to show equality and dignity. Besides, I can't bring up girls, so I can't give them to your family for nothing! Because of this backward thinking, I don't know how many families have been destroyed! In fact, at present, it is too difficult for domestic families, especially 90% rural families, to take out hundreds of thousands of cash at once. Many of them must prepare things before the wedding. In order to marry a daughter-in-law, they are almost bankrupt and even heavily in debt! Marriage is for family happiness. Is this marriage happy? !
Is it to buy girls in Shaanxi history? Is "Shaanxi women selling as donkeys" one of the top ten monsters? Bridal gift 800 yuan, this is the history of the year, the bride price! Bridal gift? It used to be a courtesy for the man's family to thank the woman's family for getting married and leaving home. There are two reasons: first, let the husband's family look up to his daughter-in-law, feel sorry for her, don't bully her, be nice to her. Now, when everything is money, the bride price has turned sour. The bride price in Shaanxi is the same as that in Shandong. A man must buy a suite in the county,100000 car,100000 lottery ticket. The reason is that everyone wants to have a son during the family planning period, and too few girls cause the imbalance between men and women now. It is difficult to marry a wife. The woman is demanding and the bride price is big. Some places got engaged as teenagers.
The bride price has become a colorless rope that binds the rural economy and farmers. In today's rural areas, as long as the bride gets married, people first ask about the bride price and which wife to marry, and people are most concerned about the bride price. Moreover, there is an atmosphere of comparison. Whoever says that the bride price is more important will be more valuable and have more face. Otherwise it's worthless. For the bride price, many rural families are heavily in debt and even return to poverty. The more poverty-stricken areas, the more popular this bride price is. As for Baoji, where the bride price is higher, I think Longxian County is the first place. Girls are given a bride price of 1 10,000 a year according to their age, and marrying a daughter-in-law requires at least10.7 million. Secondly, I think it should be the northern half, because it is close to Qingyang, Gansu, where the bride price is the highest, and Qingyang's bride price style is famous all over the country.
According to media reports earlier, in the interactive forum between the government and the people in official website, Longxian County, Baoji, someone left a message to the government, calling on the government to guide the boycott of the sky-high bride price, saying that many people in Longxian County are getting married by loan now, and their happiness is getting lower and lower. This kind of information that requires the government to intervene in high-priced bride price has pushed the issue of folk bride price to the forefront of public opinion.
According to local insiders, the bride price in mountainous counties such as Longxian, Linyou and Qianyang in Baoji is generally high. 80,000 yuan 654.38+10,000 yuan bride price is normal, and 1.5 million yuan bride price is not uncommon. Generally speaking, the bride price will be higher for families with poor conditions, and less for families with good families. 1, 000, 20,000 yuan or even several thousand yuan bride price is also available in these places.
Generally speaking, the overall situation of the bride price in Baoji City is like this. The urban bride price is about 20,000-50,000, and the bride price in Qibaofeng County is now about 30,000-50,000. In mountainous counties such as Longxian, linyou county and Qianyang in Baoji, the bride price is generally high, with 80,000 yuan and 6,543.8+10,000 yuan being normal and 6,543.8+0.5 million yuan not uncommon.
Haha, that's a good question! Regarding the issue of bride price in Baoji area, Longxian said it was the second, and no one dared to say it was the first. Three years ago, there were 88,000 near the county seat, and Xinji Town and Huoshao Village 1.4 million. This year, there are more than1.20,000 near the county seat, and it is estimated that the number of new market towns in remote areas is nearly1.89,000, nearly 200,000. I don't understand. It's so scary. I don't know whether to marry or sell a girl.
It is difficult to prove when the bride price began. It can only be said that bride price is a long-standing custom in China society. There are bride gifts all over the country, but there are only a few ways and means. At present, the poorer the place, the higher the bride price. In Baoji area, it is recognized that the county with the highest bride price is Longxian County. It is said that in recent years, the bride price in Longxian County is roughly more than 200,000 yuan, and less than 200,000 yuan is out of the question.
The bride price has always been a hot topic of concern to everyone. After dinner, friends often casually talk about the topic of bride price. Some people say this is a bad habit, others say it is a rule. People who say that bride price is a rule often say that women who don't accept bride price when they get married will break the rules in the village and make relatives and friends laugh at people around them. Others will say that this woman has a problem, a problem, a disability and so on. If the woman is normal, how can she not accept the bride price? People who say that bride price is a bad habit generally live in cities and don't know much about the customs of counties and towns.
It is said that the bride price is very open and naked, and the main purpose is to support the face of the woman's family and let her parents have prestige and status in front of the people around them. Generally, betrothal gifts are given at engagement banquets, and tens of thousands or hundreds of thousands of plates are loaded. The man's family put a lot of money plates on it and gave them to the woman's family in front of many people who participated in the engagement. People who have never seen such a scene will be dumbfounded, and even those who have seen such a scene will be suddenly enlightened.
But what has always puzzled me is that the woman's family receives so many colorful gifts and is suspected of selling her daughter as a commodity. What do girls think? Are girls indifferent?
The highest bride price in Baoji area is undoubtedly Lin Yun and Longxian in the north, because these two counties are close to Qingyang, Gansu Province, and Qingyang is famous for its high bride price. The bride price is about 300,000 to 400,000, plus miscellaneous expenses such as buying a house, buying a car and buying gold and silver jewelry. A rural child can't get married without/kloc-0.0 million. Why has the bride price risen so high in recent years? First, in family planning, some people prefer boys to girls, which has caused trouble, resulting in more boys than girls; Second, with the development of urbanization, rural girls have broadened their horizons and married to other counties, cities and provinces. Third, these two counties have many mountainous areas and poor conditions. Fourthly, influenced by the high bride price in Qingyang, for the above reasons, girls in rural areas are scarce and things are rare. Naturally, the bride price here is high.
Speaking of Baoji which county has the highest bride price?
Now, no matter whose boy is engaged or whose girl is married, the parents of many unmarried boys in the village have to ask how much bride price the boy gave. This topic has always been a hot topic in rural areas, with the highest degree of concern, because there are boys and girls getting married.
Especially in recent years, I haven't heard that the bride price is less. Married in 2008. At that time, the bride price was 10 thousand or thousands. Such a bride price, many boys' parents are afraid that the woman wants more. After all, the income of rural people is farming and there is no other source of income.
At that time, I spent 8,000 yuan to marry my daughter-in-law. On the day of engagement, my father-in-law returned 2,000 yuan to my father, which is equivalent to spending 6,000 yuan, because the bride price of each family is different, and there are more rich families. At that time, I didn't have any popularity for Sanjin. The so-called three golds are gold earrings, gold rings and gold bracelets. When I got married, I sold a gold earring to my daughter-in-law.
Now I have read a lot about marriage, and I have heard a lot about bride price at home. It is this bride price that makes many families embarrassed and unhappy, because as a man, I definitely hope that the less the bride price is spent, the better. However, with the development and progress of society, the bride price is also rising, and more and more. A young man in our village didn't find a daughter-in-law in our local area, and finally found a bride price in Qingyang, Gansu Province under the introduction of the matchmaker. Just hearing about the bride price cost us 280 thousand. Because farmers earn their living and income by working and farming all their lives, this 200,000 yuan does not include hardware. I heard you right. Now it's hardware, including gold necklaces, gold earrings, gold rings, gold bracelets and gold bracelets. This is tens of thousands of dollars. Many families are overwhelmed, so there are cars in some places and houses in the city.
Why is the bride price so high now? According to the older generation, the post-80s and post-90s family planning is particularly strict, so the ratio of male to female is out of balance. Many boys can't find wives, so the bride price is getting higher and higher.
I am from Baoji. If the county town of Baoji has the highest bride price, it belongs to Longxian County of Baoji, which is very close to Gansu. Longxian County, northwest of Baoji, is very close to Longxian County, Pingliang City, Gansu Province, and now the bride price is more than 100,000, which is quite high. This is why many families are willing to get married with loans from banks for their sons' marriage. At present, there are still many older young people in Baoji countryside who have not found a wife. Finally, I wish all the older men can find their happy partners, and I wish all lovers all get married.