1, first, be charming, second, be handsome, third, be able to talk, fourth, be accurate, fifth, be quick, sixth, be brave in holding stilts, learn from Kongming seven times, be as delicate as Cao Cao, marry girls nine times and catch beetles nine times.
2, (lighting candles to pay homage to the church) tie the knot and hang lanterns high. I'll light the lamp and I'll have a pair of places in the afterlife. Once I worship heaven and earth, I will worship Gaotang. Husband and wife love their children and grandchildren, and everyone in the world likes Yongchang V. Wash and brush!
3. (Sacrificing ancestors) Honesty is always the winner, and convincing people to take their time. Zhang Sanwang's four happiness Xi haha, thousands of grandchildren Zhao Li are in full bloom, the ancestors laugh with tears, and the matchmaker is awesome everywhere!
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4, born in a pair of places, such as glue, long love, a perfect match, flowers bloom for five generations, always knot together, the gods are attached to each other, and talented women are like flying music.
I am a great person by nature. I lobby the quartet by observing words and deeds, making good connections in all directions, making love and keeping the hands of the three rivers true, speaking with my heart and feeling, and listening is clear!
6. A lotus blooms in all directions, and the left hand is the right hand. Today is a single day, tomorrow is a double day, and the first customer is the biggest. It is auspicious to open the door to welcome guests, and it is no different from wealth in the sky. Virtue is the program, charity is rewarded to the end, robbing the rich and helping the poor to spread word of mouth, washing and brushing!
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Second, the historical position of the matchmaker.
In ancient times, the legitimacy of marriage was not recognized without parents' orders and matchmakers' words. Therefore, matchmaker is an indispensable role in social life and becomes a profession. Practitioners are mainly middle-aged and elderly women, usually called matchmakers.
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Third, matchmaking skills.
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As a matchmaker, the matchmaker can get some money, which is called a "thank you gift". The money is usually paid by the man (if the man goes to the woman's house, it will be paid by the woman) and sent to the matchmaker's house together with the cloth of chicken, duck, elbow, shoes and socks the day before the wedding. The matchmaker must guide the next day and call it "round media" or "media". The amount of money to thank the media depends on the economic situation of the host family, but no matter how much, it needs to be sealed with red paper, which is the so-called "red envelope". In our Sheyang area, there is also a saying that "the bride enters the house and the matchmaker climbs over the wall", which means that the matchmaker is not finished before the bride goes through the door.
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