What does it mean to travel and get married? The custom of honeymoon originated from Teutonic people in ancient Germany. After the wedding, both men and women drink honey water or honey-brewed wine every day for 30 days to show the beginning of a happy life. This month is called honeymoon. This custom has spread to this day and spread to China, but it is not sugar water, but a honeymoon holiday; The time may not be exactly one month, but the purpose is to enhance the feelings of newlyweds. Marriage is also introduced from western countries, and it is also a trip for both parties, but there is one less procedure than honeymoon, that is, China will no longer hold banquets and weddings. The popularity of marriage also began because it broke through the meaning of bad marriage habits.
What is the meaning of marriage?
Compared with the complicated traditional wedding ceremony, the way of traveling to get married is more relaxed and free, allowing you to enjoy the fun of traveling in different places and complete the wedding process in romantic beauty. Whether in the Green Valley, the romantic and beautiful seaside, or the ancient and mysterious church. These characteristic weddings are always full of excitement and romance for fashion lovers. In addition, because you are in a foreign land, you will inevitably encounter some unexpected events. At this time, you need two people to care about each other, understand each other and face difficulties together. This is the real test of the relationship between husband and wife.
Marriage is also introduced from western countries, and it is also a trip for both parties, but there is one less procedure than honeymoon, that is, China will no longer hold banquets and weddings. The popularity of marriage also began because it broke through the meaning of bad marriage habits.
Two different weddings of college roommates
1934 college students who graduated gradually began to enter the peak of marriage. After 80, they all have personalized requirements for their own weddings. But even in the same age group, they have different attitudes towards "whether to get married or not".
26-year-old and Zhen are college roommates and choose to marry their boyfriend in the middle and end of the year. The difference is that Zhen is busy preparing for the wedding at the end of the year, while she and her fiance are planning how to spend a sweet wedding trip. When it comes to their views on the wedding, the two brides-to-be have completely different attitudes. Zhen said: "Maybe the wedding is only one day, and even some relatives and friends only see two hours of dinner, but this is once in a lifetime. It would be a pity if there was no wedding. " Xie Jiayu believes that in addition to big banquets, traveling to get married is also a way of getting married, as long as it is memorable. Xie Jiayu said that she would definitely attend Zhen Xuan's wedding at the end of the year, when she had already returned from a trip with her husband.
It is better to have a sweet trip than to spend a lot of money on a wedding.
Zhen's wedding process has no reference for me. Xie Jiayu said, "How tired it is to hold a wedding like her. I just want my marriage to feel good. My parents were a little surprised when we decided not to hold the wedding. I told my father that we didn't want a traditional wedding or too much red tape. We want to get married by traveling. Since I can accept your daughter, what's the problem? "
Xie Jiayu doesn't want a traditional wedding. First of all, she thinks that complicated wedding ceremonies are unnecessary. Secondly, she thinks it is not worth spending so much money on the wedding day. "My father asked if there was any financial pressure for us not to hold a wedding, and if we needed their help. I said it's not that I can't afford to spend money, but that a day's ceremony is not worth spending. If I had a more memorable wedding trip, I would be happier. Xie Jiayu's parents are also traditional parents. They also hoped that their daughter would appear in front of relatives and friends like a princess on the wedding day, but they finally respected Xie Jiayu's decision.
Now, Xie Jiayu and her fiance will travel to Japan for one month in August. Her fiance is an advertisement. She spent some time in Japan during her college years, so she is familiar with Japan. He hopes to make a documentary about their travel wedding, which is also a way to cherish forever. Xie Jiayu said, "Actually, in Japan, many young people don't like weddings either. I read an article before, which said,' The Japanese are modest, low-key and pragmatic. Stepping into the marriage hall under the gaze of many eyes is contrary to their low-key style. They often think that it is better to spend a high-end honeymoon abroad than to spend money on a wedding. Others think that holding a wedding is nothing more than self-satisfaction. Not only are all kinds of procedures cumbersome, but there are often thankless situations. In addition, Japan is a society that emphasizes gratitude. Japan's lifelong employment system is gradually disintegrating, and many young people don't want their bosses or colleagues who may not work together in the future to attend the wedding, so as not to repay them in time and feel guilty. "In fact, more and more young people in China are facing the same situation now, so they also have the same idea of not wanting a wedding."