There are two kinds of people and customs in Qidong. People in the south are called Shashangren, and their ancestors came from the south of the Yangtze River. People in the north are from Lvsi area. I can't understand what Qidong people in the north say. The customs there are different from those in the south. I only give you the customs of the south.

Generally, Qidong people talk about marriage in the first half of the year and give bride price, but not in the second half. Most of them are during the Spring Festival, usually between the second and eighth days of the year. Of course, the most important thing is money. At present, the market in Qidong is 15.8W cash+gold jewelry. There are hundreds of thousands of them, and of course there are few. Generally, it will be answered according to the woman's situation, ranging from 1-2W to 8- 12W. The gold ornaments are for your wife. Most of the bride's remaining bride price money goes to the man as a dowry. Those with more money will marry the rest of the bride price together when their daughters get married, and even add money. Ask your in-laws specifically. . . Generally, the two families will negotiate when giving a bride price. This is a face-saving project. You'd better ask in private.