As a tool for men to carry on the family line, bride price is equal to compensation, but it also leads to a vicious circle of marriage, which basically has no feelings, so marriage is mostly maintained by responsibility, and there is not much welfare for women, which makes women feel insecure, so bride price is used to increase their sense of security.
A worthless or unreliable man wants a bride price because he is worried that he can't support himself and his children after divorce. A truly capable, responsible, quality and capable man can accumulate savings in a few years after marriage, and even if he is divorced, he can divide a lot of property. Property after marriage belongs to the same property. Of course, there are also love marriages that want nothing, provided that both parties are willing to be desperate together, even if they don't care who dumps them in the future.
I told my boyfriend and family about the dowry today. He still thinks that paying 200 thousand is the most basic. He said that he had told his colleagues and relatives to change cars, and it would be embarrassing not to change cars.
I gave two plans: traditional marriage: how much his family came and how much my family gave, and no one said who suffered. He doesn't think so. In that case, the wedding photos will be divided equally and the wedding will be divided equally. How much will he spend on my necklace ring? How much will I buy him? The banquet is for men and women. ) hehe.
Second, is it the first plan to get married without bride price or dowry? He said that all expenses should be shared equally. Then I said, then I don't want the bride price. I'll marry you for 780 thousand. Throw away the expenses he said, and I should still have some money left. Then he stopped talking and was silent ... I know he still thinks it's not appropriate to move his toes.
All right. Since the three views are so different, I say it won't end. My mind broke down. I lived for 23 years. Then he said that my family really knows how to count. I am going to break up. Will it be kept until next year?