Whether the wedding anniversary is the day of getting the certificate or the wedding day is a question that many newlyweds will ask, and it is also a very controversial day. At present, there are two main views on when the wedding anniversary is: view 1: the wedding anniversary is the day when the wedding is held. Traditionally, the wedding day is considered as the wedding anniversary. According to the traditional custom in China, we can regard getting a marriage certificate as a ceremony of accepting three letters of appointment from six gifts, and the wedding ceremony is a modern wedding, and the wedding after that is the wedding anniversary. Many netizens believe that the wedding day is the day when the bride really marries from her mother's family to her husband's family and begins to live independently, so the wedding day is recognized by the secular and unforgettable. People in China generally count it as this day. In many parts of the world, holding a wedding is one of the signs of legal marriage, but there are also complex and simple forms. Viewpoint 2: The wedding anniversary is the day to get a marriage certificate. In modern law, the date of receiving the marriage certificate is considered as the wedding anniversary. Since the promulgation of the Marriage Law, young people, especially those born in 1980s, think that getting a license now is guaranteed by law, because both men and women are legally married after getting a license, and a wedding is just a celebration to celebrate their becoming husband and wife, which has no legal effect. If a couple just hold a wedding without a marriage certificate, it is not legally recognized. Judging from the online voting, almost 80% people think that the wedding anniversary should be their wedding day. In fact, don't worry about your wedding anniversary, as long as it makes you more meaningful to each other, it can be your choice. Let's listen to the answers from netizens! How to celebrate the wedding anniversary? 1. Carefully prepare a breakfast. A good day begins with breakfast. Therefore, this special day must start with a well-prepared breakfast. It is best for the one who doesn't cook at ordinary times to get up and make breakfast for each other. 2, send a small gift wedding anniversary can not be without a gift, we can choose a bunch of roses, or a bunch of lilies, symbolizing love and growing old together, but we must make the gift meaningful, so as to impress each other. 3. Make some small surprises for each other, such as taking her to a place she yearns for but has never had a chance to go, or suddenly giving her some gifts, or making some photo albums, VCRs, etc. Let the other person feel romantic. 4. Try to enjoy the world of two people. If there are children after marriage, then two people should discuss whether to take care of the children together on their wedding anniversary. If you want to be romantic, you can try to live alone and settle down the children. Two people can go to a movie, go to a place where they once loved each other, have a romantic dinner and so on. What day is the wedding anniversary? Netizen 1: The day my wife and I got the license was our wedding anniversary. From a legal point of view, that day was the day when the state officially recognized the couple as legal couples, protected by law, and the date and steel seal were printed on the marriage certificate; From the folk point of view, some people in some areas think that marriage is not in the traditional sense without a wedding, so it is understandable to treat the wedding day as a wedding anniversary to make it festive and auspicious. Father's wedding anniversary is the wedding day, but here is the day to get the certificate. This may be a change in the concept of the times, but there is no right or wrong. If these two days are difficult to decide, you might as well sit comfortably on your own sofa with your partner and make a cup of coffee to discuss the feelings and unforgettable memories of getting the license and the wedding day. When both of your most unforgettable memories are on the same day, I recommend them to you that day. Netizen 2: In fact, we have had these two days, but we will give a little surprise and send out new calendars, so I will help with birthdays and anniversaries, haha, let everyone know! Netizen 3: It is said that my husband and I have been entangled in this matter for a long time! Finally, after many discussions, it was decided that the wedding day was more memorable! Netizen 4: Accurately speaking, it should start from the date of obtaining the certificate, but this question varies from person to person. Netizen 5: I'm going to celebrate them both! Ha ha! Legally, the date of obtaining the license is the date of legal marriage between husband and wife! But generally, many people now take the wedding day as their wedding anniversary! But I don't think there is anything wrong with a few anniversaries over a year! You can ask for more gifts! Netizen 6: Generally, the days of banquets are calculated by the elderly at home according to the lunar calendar. I'm afraid I'll forget it in a few years, and then I'll pass the anniversary of the license. If the wine day is simple and easy to remember, it should be no problem, hehe! How to write wedding anniversary card 1? We met, so we had love. We fell in love and got married We got married and had a family. Wife, happy wedding anniversary, let's create a better life together! 2, hold your hand, grow old with your son, and grow old together. Through thick and thin, share weal and woe, even if your hair is gray, * * * you watch the sunset with your fingers locked. Love you forever. 3. True love is eternal, and love is unique; Crown your wrist with my love; Stay with me all my life. You are the only love in my life. 4. I can't be brave when I meet you, walk out of the closed wall in my heart, bathe in the warm sunshine of true love, stand up bravely and love your chest, fade away all the worries of hesitation, and let the road of happiness extend indefinitely! I have something to tell you: I like you. If you accept it, send me a text message to make me happy; Don't reply to the message until you accept it, which makes me sad; I didn't receive your reply, so I thought you were shy and embarrassed to reply. 6. I would like to be a star in the sky, giving you eternal light and waiting for you forever. 7. No matter how far apart we are, my heart will always hold your heart! ! 8. marry me. You must be the second happiest person in the world, because the first happiest person is me! 9. Because of you, my world will be so perfect, and loving you is my only reason! Get used to sleeping in your arms every night to sleep well! I love you! Kiss you! 10, because of you, my world is so perfect, and loving you is my only reason! I love you! Kiss you! Sleep with your name on your pillow every night! 1 1. It is rare to have a bosom lover in life. Whether now or in the distant future, we are guarding each other's love today. Surrounded by flowers, it seems like every morning and evening for you and me. Isn't that white rose just what you look like? Around you is my deep love, and it will always be like this in the future! 12, waiting for you all your life is not a simple and pale pledge of eternal love, but countless dull days through thick and thin, caring for each other! 13, I have you all the way, accompanying me with joy and sorrow. I will cherish this sincere love for a lifetime. 14. Love at first sight is our fate, and distance is our obstacle. Can you and I play a touching fairy tale in advance? I look forward to a happy ending. 15, in my mind, sometimes it's big enough to punt, but for you and me, it's so small because it's just you and me, isn't it? 16, I think I really don't love you enough! The moment you left, I began to miss you, because you made me set off a ripple of love! When everyone is dismissive of you, don't forget that I care about you! 17, I like a life with pure hope, only a steady and slow growth, a color washed away by years, a song sung with my heart, and a lifelong companion with this person who reads short messages. 18, the most romantic thing I can think of is to grow old with you until we are too old to go anywhere, and you still regard me as a treasure in your hand. 19, we choose to end the romantic loveliness and enter the complexity of life. Our home is a fortress of love, no matter what they say, we still live happily. Dear, happy wedding anniversary! 20. My days are bright because of you, my heart is broad because of you, my feelings are rich because of you, my life is happy because of you, and everything in me is warm because of your existence! When is the wedding anniversary? 2 1. What about the wedding anniversary? Whether it is the wedding day or the wedding day, it is very memorable. So when is the wedding anniversary? Many people have different opinions. Some people think that wedding anniversary should be regarded as wedding anniversary, because on that day, two people happily register, take an oath and make a lifelong commitment, and you become him. So it should be a wedding anniversary. 2. How to calculate the wedding anniversary? Some people say that the wedding day should be regarded as the wedding anniversary. Because on that day, the young couple got married with the blessing of all the guests and officially started their happy life. 3. How to calculate the wedding anniversary? In fact, whether it is the day of obtaining the certificate or the day of holding the wedding, it is a very memorable day. No matter which day is regarded as the wedding anniversary, a movie ticket, a candlelight dinner and a gift on this day are full of happiness and warm each other's feelings. 2. 1 How did you spend your wedding anniversary? How long has it been since you and your husband enjoyed a quiet breakfast alone? Try to send the children to school as early as possible. Sitting at the breakfast table, you will suddenly find that you haven't had a chance to appreciate the man opposite you for a long time. In the familiar atmosphere, there is a fresh excitement, suggesting that you will not empathize with others. If there is love, what are you afraid of in marriage? 2, change habits Every morning, it is usually the husband who gets up to make (buy) breakfast? Let him enjoy it tomorrow morning, such as frying a poached egg; Does the first stiff neck always sleep till dawn? Wake him up with your kiss tonight; Do you always ask your husband to give you a foot massage? He should also enjoy your super service today. After getting along for a long time, married life is easy to be dull. Some people say that "plain is true", but a healthy marriage needs to be moved and energetic. Marriage can be without suspense, but a married life without surprises is like an unshakable pool of water that will slowly die. 3. Zoom in and look at the photos in the album. How many photos are there of you and your husband alone? If there are few answers, you should be careful to maintain your marriage! Many couples who have been married for more than ten years will unconsciously change their photos to those of their children, which shows that you may have begun to ignore the communication with each other in your busy life. To make up for it, go to the photo studio and take a satisfactory photo (wedding photos are of course the best) and hang it on the bedroom wall. Standing in front of the bed and looking at yourself in the photo, you will find how happy and lucky you are to be able to smile side by side after so many years! 4. Adopt a pet. If love is too rich and there is nowhere to talk? It is better to dedicate extra enthusiasm to those homeless puppies. As long as there is such a small thing at home, you are guaranteed to live a full and warm life every hour. Some scholars believe that after 10 years of marriage, women often need people other than husband and wife to share her love and happiness, and pets are the best choice. 5, 24-hour wedding anniversary can also do the opposite. On this day, after arranging the children, they suddenly disappeared without a trace. Don't contact for 24 hours, turn off your cell phone, and don't reveal your whereabouts to any relatives and friends. You can do whatever you want. You will find that no matter what you are doing, his name will always come to your mind. "What is he doing? With who? Are you looking for me everywhere? " At this moment, does he feel this way? The answer can test the degree of your love. If so, give him a warm kiss when we meet. 3. What gift do you give for your wedding anniversary? 1. Carve lovers' crystal cups. The couple's champagne glasses are simply the best in the wine glasses. The cup can be engraved with a unique commemoration and blessing, and the road you walked together in the past year will be released. On a romantic night, candlelight and wine will jointly create your romantic anniversary. MP4 crystal piano music box Crystal is the crystallization of love. Customize the photo of you two, put it in the bedroom, and the piano is elegant. It's small and exquisite. Romantic time, accompanied by relaxed music and red wine. Must be unique. Third, diy Qianzu Silver Love Gold Card customized the newlyweds on the first anniversary of their marriage. Come on, swear patience for your love. 27 grams of silver personalized love commemorative card, free laser engraving, engraved with your own name, 27 homophonic words "love your wife", 52 1 13 14 represents that I love you all my life, and there are many numbers to choose from. Oh, that's very thoughtful. Fourth, the couple's double dolls are customized, and the couple's real dolls can be customized manually by providing real pictures. A high degree of similarity indicates that the husband and wife are harmonious and beautiful. It is very interesting for the newlyweds to give it as a wedding anniversary gift. Both he and she will be very moved. The above is how to calculate the wedding anniversary for everyone and how to spend it. I hope it will help everyone. If you want to give gifts, you should also introduce them at the end of the article so that everyone can have a romantic wedding anniversary.