You can't attend other people's weddings before the wedding.
As many people know, the customs in different parts of our country are different. In some areas, there is a custom that couples who are about to get married should not attend other people's weddings. Otherwise, your own Western God will collide with other people's Western God, which will not only be bad for yourself, but also have some influence on others. If you attend someone else's wedding, your elders will be unhappy, so you'd better ask if there is such an urgent custom before you go.
What are the customs before the wedding?
1. The bride should eat alone when she goes out (have a bite with her brothers and sisters). In the early years, there was a custom of crying marriage in rural areas, but now it is rare. In some places, tea is offered to thank parents for their years of upbringing and express their gratitude to their parents. )
2, across the brazier (meaning the future is booming), the parents of the bride and groom worship their ancestors and tell them that new people have been added to their families and other old customs, but sometimes there are some deviations in different customs.
The toasting process at the wedding
Toast is also a very important process at the wedding reception, and it is an opportunity for newcomers and guests to interact. When toasting, the couple should know the background of the guests in advance and pay attention to the order of toasting. First is the main table, the parents of the woman and the man, then the other elders, and then the second table. Not only every table should be respected, but also the guests on the table should be respected one by one. Don't be rude Usually, the time for toasting is after the cold dishes and the first course are finished at the main table, and the newlyweds start toasting table by table. At this time, many brides will change into cheongsam or cheongsam. Toast usually starts from the elders of the two families, then comes the colleagues and friends of relatives and parents, and finally comes the peers, friends, classmates and colleagues of the new couple. This can avoid all kinds of people who are related to the bride and groom from having opinions, and can also avoid omissions. Everyone at each table should be respected as much as possible to avoid some people not being recorded.