In China, boys from many families are urged to get married by their parents when they are 26 or 7 years old. For most men who are not ready to get married, the fear of marriage begins to form at this time, because, in the eyes of these men, their ideas and plans for marriage are not mature, and they are not sure who they will marry. However, when parents meet, they are urged in every way, which makes boys feel unprecedented pressure. It is inevitable that a boy chooses to get married under pressure and has a fear of marriage. The ideal is full and the realization is very skinny. Facing the cruel reality, more and more men and women stop outside the besieged city. It's not that they are psychologically unprepared. The reason why I dare not easily step into the besieged city of marriage is because the real life after marriage will crush the infinite beauty of love, ruin the sweetness in the process of love, and even prove that "marriage is the grave of love." Therefore, there are cowardly men who are afraid of the uncertainty of married life and dare not marry each other. The feeling of love is beautiful. In the face of two people's pure feelings, it can be a month in the past or next month, and it can be romantic without contact. Marriage means that two strangers live together, which means that they have to take responsibility all their lives. Therefore, we should also carefully consider and make full psychological preparations.