I. Conditions

1, the bridesmaid must be a woman and pass a medical examination.

2. The bridesmaids must be unmarried women, and if necessary, they should show their unmarried certificates.

3, bridesmaids must be more ordinary than the bride, of course, if they look similar to the bride, because the bride will definitely become the focus of the audience after makeup, but don't let the bridesmaids overshadow the bride. If any family can't decide which one looks better, the bride or the bridesmaid, we suggest sending photos here for our reference.

The bridesmaid must be an honest woman. Because the wedding day will be chaotic, it will be a little difficult for the bride to collect red envelopes alone. Under normal circumstances, bridesmaids must bring a bag, and a large part of the bag should be reserved for red envelopes in addition to some tools for making up in time to avoid losing them.

The bridesmaid must be a delicate and flexible woman, because some unexpected things may happen at the wedding, and the bride is often carried away by happiness at this time, so she must always pay attention to the situation on the spot and put forward correct opinions and suggestions in time.

6. The bridesmaid must be a little drunk and can block the bride if necessary, because the protagonist of the day must be the bride, and the bride must not have an accident. Green leaves lined with safflower must be in place.

7. The number of bridesmaids depends on the size of the wedding, and a small wedding is usually enough. If there is more than one bridesmaid invited, you must make up an even number, because it is unlucky to be a yes-man and avoid the singular after the "one".

Second, the bridesmaid's job responsibilities and processes

1. Make an agreement with the bride on the meeting time, lodging place and hotel location (to be finalized one week before marriage).

2. Report to the bride's house on time, and prepare the missing items (such as flower arrangement on the head) with the bride, and some may arrange the venue. It is best to meet the groom and the best man. At this time, we must pay attention to more communication. The bride is already dizzy, but the bridesmaid should be awake. Ask all the things that should be prepared. Have you prepared fake wine, female guests scattering petals, male guests lighting firecrackers, champagne tables and candlesticks, tried the sound, contacted the host ... Don't think that the couple will remember everything, and treat their wedding as their own from the beginning. If you have the conditions, you must advise newcomers to practice on the spot. When they practice, imagine themselves following behind and practice in their minds.

3. Help the bride wear the wedding dress at night. First, bridesmaids are familiar with the dressing process. Second, find feelings for the bride. When wearing a wedding dress, it is best to put a piece of cloth under the wedding dress to prevent the wedding dress from electrostatically attracting dust on the ground due to friction.

4. Monitor the amount of water the bride drinks before going to bed and remind the bride to go to bed early. Call the police before going to bed and put the things you want to use in obvious places.

The next morning, get up a little earlier than the bride and wash in front of her. When the bride washes, the bridesmaids should take the time to make up their own makeup (it will be much easier for the makeup artist to make up their bridesmaids, and some brides will go to the photo studio to make up their bridesmaids). Not too thick, just cover the acne pits on their faces, and forget the fake eyelashes and wigs. I don't have to do my hair specially. I just try to solve the problem at will, because it is very hot (of course, I don't have much time to do it). Then the bride has a lot of breakfast (this is the food of the day! )

6. In the process of the bride's makeup, the bridesmaid's main task is to arrange her own clothes and makeup, and secondly, to check whether the items that the bride wants to bring, such as headdress and jewelry, are all packed. The most important thing is to convey and complete the bride's instructions, such as: the bride wants to drink water-pour; The bride wants to find someone-call; The groom calls and answers; Makeup artists are too busy-in short, they should have the spirit of "screws"-where they can be used.

7. When the groom picks up the bride, try to stop him (time permits, you can make things difficult for him more). The harsher the questions you ask, the better. If there is no elder to accompany you, let the groom find shoes for the bride (one pair is enough), because when putting shoes on the bride, the happy expression on her face is really touching (maybe this time in my life).

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8. After getting off the float, a lot of ribbons will be sprinkled on the newcomers, which should be cleaned up in time. Before the ceremony, check the makeup of the bride again (it's easy to have a makeup artist). Send what the bride needs to the dressing room in time. Sometimes the bride's family does it.

9. Put napkins, cosmetics and diamond rings in a small handbag and go back to the bride.

10. Help the bride lift her wedding dress moderately when entering the venue. It is best to raise the wedding dress and skirt slightly from the side to prevent the bride from tripping. I'm short, so I hardly have to bend over. The tall jm should sacrifice a little spirit at this time, bend his noble waist and do it for the bride even if he feels uncomfortable (no one wants the bride to fall).

1 1. After sending the new person to the stage, the best man and he will automatically retreat to both sides of the stage at any time (it is not good to steal the limelight, it is unnatural for everyone to be a green leaf, so it is better to wait). If the bride is in tears, pass the paper towel and make up her makeup.

12. After the ceremony, it is best to change clothes and make up for the bride as soon as possible, tidy things up (preferably with the help of parents), and it is best to eat something. Be sure to remind newcomers and themselves to go to wc.

13 When toasting, the best man carries the wine and the bridesmaid carries the cigarettes and candy. Remind the bride to meet the man when toasting; Peel sugar when meeting female guests; Give the red envelope to the bridesmaid for safekeeping.

14. Leave it to the best man. When they push a cup for a change, quickly find an acquaintance to send you food (be sure to say hello in advance, but pay attention to eating). When you see what the new couple has eaten that is hard to swallow, hand in a tissue (preferably steamed bread) at the right time.

15. Wait patiently until the end of the party and politely ask, "What else can I do for you?" Then explain the whereabouts of the bride's belongings, the collection and surrender of red envelopes, and say hello and goodbye to the couple's parents with a smile. Pay attention to the inventory before leaving, don't take away the new things, and don't leave your own things behind.