I am also my mother's daughter, a neglected child since childhood. On the contrary, my sister is my mother's favorite child. My mother likes my sister very much since she was a child. My sister is always superior to me at home! Love is everyone's freedom and right! We have no reason to take it! We only have the right to ask ourselves to be good people. My sister doesn't care about my parents as much as her mother does. She earns a high salary every month and is unwilling to eat or wear. She saved all her money just to protect her daughter's thoughtfulness! My sick mother seldom gets the care of her sister! Not long ago, my sister saved another 30,000 yuan, and my daughter with good funding conditions bought a facade house in Shiyan. I can't take it anymore. When my sister called me, I bluntly said, you are my mother's daughter, and your body was given to you by my mother. Why do you only have your own daughter in your heart and no place for your mother? My mother is eighty-six years old. How many years can she go on this road of life? Why can't you give one hundred of the thirty thousand dollars you gave your daughter to my mother so that she can enjoy some of your blessings? Your daughter is still so young and has a long way to go! Our mother's life span is very short. She is eighty-six! When I said these words, I had a picture in my heart, which was the ferocious face given to my mother by a woman and a bad daughter!
I saw this title today, and I saw why there are so many people who are not good to women in the world! I just want to say that it's not my mother's fault, but my mother gave my brother more than 200 thousand. You are selfish and can't hide it! Selfish people value money so much!
How can you say your mother is not as good as an animal? I don't know you, so I can't judge who you are subjectively. However, one thing I feel is that you have tears on your face and hurt in your heart.
If a person is kind and sunny, even if his mother is not comprehensive, he will selectively forget and remember her goodness. Because, what he knows about a mother's difficulties and her mother's difficulties are not worth mentioning in front of her kindness.
When I was a child, my mother beat me, took off my pants and spanked my ass with the soles of my shoes. I was in pain like a pig, howling loudly. The neighbors can hear the sad cry, and all the neighbors know that my mother beat the child severely.
I have a sister and a brother. Why didn't my sister and brother get beaten, and my mother beat me up? When I grow up, I know a little more, and I deeply feel sorry for my mother: she has to work, take care of the whole family, eat and drink Lazar, sew and mend, and wait on her grandfather to feed him and give him medicine. It's hard for my mother, and I'm still giving her trouble outside? If I don't fight for three days, I can go to the house to uncover the tiles. Shouldn't I call?
If you have brothers and sisters and your mother treats them like you, then maybe your mother really has some problems. If your mother gets along well with other children, then you really have a problem.
In fact, your mother's biggest problem is that she didn't bring up a child with compassion and tolerance.
There is an angel and a devil in a person's heart. Those things that are entangled in my heart still choose to let go. If you can't let go, it's also a good idea to choose to leave far away. Otherwise, the devil will always be with you, and you will always live in pain and resentment.
Sure！ My parents didn't like me since I was a child, so I was very independent since I was a child, collecting bottles and garbage! Take pictures in the village to make money and give money to parents. When the three brothers separated, they had their own houses, and the children were raised by my parents! My child has been left unattended all day! Later, I was too difficult, so I took my wife to work in Haicheng! Never mind how much you have suffered, life is quite good now! When the parents were rich, the two brothers turned over the house and the children spent the money on their studies! I'm too old to do it! ! The end result is that the two brothers have no one to raise, and finally the neighbors told me about their parents' recent situation! Without a word, my daughter-in-law drove more than 1000 miles to get it! My mother was peeing on the kang! There are rotten bedsores on the back of your ass! My wife took good care of her, and now she's fine! You can go, too. What my mother says most now is that I regret it! In fact, I still don't know why they don't like me! I thank my wife!
Thank you for inviting me. I don't know what you are talking about, let you use that adjective to describe your mother. So it's not convenient to express opinions. I also read the other questions you asked. Judging from the question you asked, it should be that most people in the world are sorry for you, and this matter is a bit troublesome ... Personally, don't blame [pray] [pray].
There is a mother who is worse than an animal. I've experienced it myself. My mother prefers her son to a pervert and doesn't want to give it away after birth. My father stopped me. I sent them to the countryside in three days, and then sent them to my grandmother's house at the age of one. I went back to when she was fourteen and started inhuman abuse. I was abused and sometimes I was denied food. I once had a sister, who was also bullied and inhuman, and was caught eating carrots. It's terrible to wait on them at home every day like a little babysitter. I bullied her until she died, but I didn't break up with my dad and my buddies. I always did what my daughter should do. She stayed with me when she was in hospital, and she hated everything she did, but I stayed until the end. By the way, my sister basically broke up with her family.
If what you do is really worse than an animal, of course, don't forgive. My parents divorced when I was one year old. What's even more ridiculous is that my mother doesn't want me, and the custody belongs to my father. I grew up with my grandparents. Now I'm 26 years old and my child is five months old. I don't even know what my mother looks like. Because after the divorce, he never came to see me again and didn't give me any alimony. Actually, his mother's house is not too far from my grandmother's house. I played downstairs when I was young. She just walked past me for a look, and then left like a passer-by. These were told to my grandmother by the neighbors nearby.
Later, my father remarried and moved away, leaving me to live with my grandparents. My grandparents are very kind to me, but this can't replace my mother. I don't hate her, because how can I hate someone I don't know at all? I'm numb to the word mom. Mom is just a word in my heart, with no other meaning.
I can easily find her now, but I won't. Even if she comes to recognize me, I will refuse. Because I'm used to living without my mother, and now I'm old enough to protect myself. I don't need her to disturb my life anymore.
Many people stand on the moral high ground and say, that's your mother. She worked hard to give birth to you anyway. But you know, she has no children. I would rather she didn't have me. You're not us. You won't realize that I don't have my mother's inferiority complex, and you won't realize the pain he caused me when he hurt me, so please don't criticize others without empathy.
This word is too much to describe your mother. It is possible that your parents are eccentric or have a bad relationship, but I believe that no mother will hurt her children. I sometimes complain to my parents about their partiality, deprivation and greed. Since I came out of school, almost all the burdens at home have fallen on me. Whether it's trivial matters at home or the living expenses of the family, I have to pay all the expenses, including buying a house in the city and endowment insurance, which are all my money. Later, I divorced and took my children back to my parents' house. I have to take care of the living expenses and utilities of my whole family (including my brother's family of three). At that time, I opened a wedding company and a real estate agent. I had to get up before six o'clock every day to set up a stall, and I had to ask for leave to buy food and go home. When the wedding ceremony is busy, I will go to the intermediary immediately and give my parents hundreds of red envelopes every time I sell my house. I am so tired that I fall asleep when I go home for dinner every day. Sometimes I can only eat one meal in a busy day, but my parents are still unhappy and want to force me to move out. They bought some fruit toothpaste outside and asked me for reimbursement. Later, they couldn't bear it anymore, so they rented a house and moved out. It's just that the child is in pain. The baby was still in primary school at that time. Sometimes I'm too busy to go home late. The baby can't even eat dinner. When I saw it was late, I thought the baby was at home alone. Sometimes I secretly wipe my tears when signing a contract. Sometimes I want to ask my parents for help and let them look after the baby, but they all refuse. They also said, "It's not like you can't afford it. Why do you work so hard to make money? You can take your baby at home without going to work! " I am really speechless! Later, I had a car accident and my arm was broken, and they didn't take care of me. My sister couldn't see the past, so she asked my mother to take care of me, but she didn't come. Finally, my sister cooks soup for me every day! I sometimes feel that my sister has always been very kind to me, even better than my parents. I have paid so much for my parents. They gave me nothing but raising me, but I have been repaying their kindness. There are complaints, but I don't hate them, just chilling! I have always believed that good people are rewarded and hard work will be rewarded. After three years of hard work, my baby and I finally have a shelter from the wind and rain. Perhaps filial piety will also be blessed by God.
This question is a bit incorrect. Whose parents can treat their children worse than animals? Everyone in the world has unpleasant things, but parents deal with things in different ways. For example, in our generation, there are four or five brothers and sisters. Parents didn't bring up a man who died of hunger and freezing to get married. After marriage, everyone went their separate ways and left their children with them. Everyone's parents want their children to succeed. Go your own way, children give their parents some money, some are sincere, and some don't give way to their parents. Parents have brought up their children since childhood, and they all know which is good for their parents. Who wants to find out their parents' mistakes depends first on how they treat their parents.
I don't know what your mother did to you. I asked you to use the word "beast" to describe her.
I see your resentment in your question.
We know that the greatest selfless love in the world is maternal love.
But mothers are human beings and make mistakes, and children are human beings and make mistakes. We can all understand that.
However, any mistake is not without reason, it is rooted and traceable.
Everyone's age and growth experience are different, and they will make different judgments and understandings of everything in the world and do different things.
Mother is also a woman, but a woman will have her advantages and disadvantages.
Advantages, I won't say it today.
The disadvantages are all kinds of greedy desires and unhealthy psychology caused by the influence of life and environment.
If your mother belongs to the following few women: in order to satisfy all kinds of greed, mental distortion, to sell her children for money, to force her daughter into prostitution, to have indecent incest and promiscuity, cruel domestic violence, and even to endanger her family's life, in reason, we tell you that your mother is an animal and can understand your feelings, but as your life and upbringing, her mother says such things as "animal".
The so-called dirty laundry should not be publicized. Apart from legal factors, children have the obligation to safeguard their mother's reputation and do their best to coordinate their families.
If your mother doesn't satisfy you for your own self-interest, and you call your mother an animal, then you are completely disobedient.
Finally, we should never lose the fine and orderly China tradition that has been cultivated for thousands of years, otherwise the family ethics will be completely disrupted.
No matter what my mother did, I wouldn't use the word worse than an animal to describe her.
Our family is a daughter, and I am the second child. When my mother gave birth to me the next year, my mother-in-law and elder sister-in-law should have come to see us, or they might have been born girls. But rural people don't pay attention to methods, which deeply hurts my mother's heart. Father didn't coax her, and mother was more resentful, and there was nowhere to vent her resentment. It's all my fault. I suspect that my birth caused the current angry situation, and she has never heard from me since then. Finally, I entered the black whirlpool of death in disgust.
I didn't realize all this until I sat quietly. I was spinning in a black whirlpool. I remember clearly that my birthday is in Gregorian calendar 165438+ October, so I should be one year and three months. My father also said that when I was over one year old, I had a high fever of 40 degrees and almost died.
I remember in the black whirlpool, I felt a sense of world-weariness, and I hated everything on the earth. It's too dirty. Later, I cleaned up this feeling of world-weariness, vomited a lot of cold phlegm, and three packs of paper were not enough. This feeling of world-weariness will bring me depression in the future.
When I was spinning in the black whirlpool, my consciousness kept drilling in. I will go if I don't open my eyes. There is another kind of consciousness that has opened my eyes. When I open my eyes, I see beautiful ice flowers. The ice flowers with ice on the glass are so beautiful. This beautiful ice flower kept my life.
At this time, the factory director also came to see me. We are a military factory and live in seclusion in the mountains. The factory director is the master of one party. He said that my parents should take good care of the children and stop making trouble. It can be seen that they were tossing badly at that time, and everyone around them knew it. However, I also understand that I can't die, so in the future, no matter how difficult it is, I never thought about dying.
I never hated my mother. On the contrary, I love my mother very much, but, indeed, I have never been loved in the sense. So I have been very sad, crying and unfair, but I have never hated it, because I dare to be sensitive and hate people and erode bones, so I never hate it.
Because I didn't get enough touch and hug from childhood, my body was very sensitive, and others couldn't get close to me, and thieves couldn't start from me. Not only super sensitive, but also timid and extremely nervous. When I clean my body, I find that my body has a circle of obstacles and self-imposed restrictions. It is this barrier that is actually composed of tension and anxiety, which limits me a lot.
Because this kind of treatment from childhood has also caused unhappiness in the future. Without love, you will not be weak and lovely, and you will become strong and cold. I also met people in marriage and eventually divorced. Because I have never been loved, others cherish it when they are kind to themselves, thinking it is love, how pitiful.
My experience can be said to have experienced autism, depression, anxiety, and even ADHD, learning disabilities, and brain fractures, but I still climbed out alive.
Looking back on my past, a child's childhood injury is extremely difficult to repair, and who can bear so many blows?
I really never hated my mother. Now I feel it a little through meditation. I believe this is the arrangement of my soul. Besides, I am proud of my experience, and I can climb out alive. I believe that through my spiritual sublimation and energy promotion, my mother will also be driven. Although she is buried underground, our energy is interlinked, and my ascension can also free her from her suffering.