Please analyze the reasons according to objective facts.
Subjective reasons are that he doesn't want to marry you because he has no feelings, or that he has plans yet.
Objective reason, is it because of economic problems? _? Or is it not allowed at home?
The reason is that if it is not subjective, then two people can discuss with each other, work together and cheer together, which are all objective reasons. But if it is subjective, don't be impulsive. Otherwise you will regret it in the future.
A female colleague of my internship is 35 years old. I have been with my boyfriend for more than ten years, but my boyfriend has never meant to get married, saying that he is trying to do business, but he has been failing for various reasons. The woman has been looking for someone to borrow money everywhere, borrowing money every month, and everyone around her is scared. I've known her for a month, and just as an intern, she asked me for money. My roommate told me that she would never come back after borrowing it, and also told me the above things about her. And her boyfriend never married her, only said that he would wait until he was rich. And let her borrow money everywhere. Personally, I think this girl is not worth it. Maybe she hesitated, too. I have known each other for several months, and I read all kinds of Buddhist scriptures almost every day, even during work hours. I think it is very important to have a clear feeling, not to pay without a retreat, to love and cherish each other rationally. This is the true story of my colleague.
My own real events. Freshman didn't spend much time with him at first. They had been together for seven years when they graduated. My parents urged the engagement, and his parents refused the engagement on the grounds that his brother was unmarried and his brother got married first. I know, actually, it's because I have no money. I think I just graduated and have a stable job first. Actually, I'm not in a hurry. Our relationship has been stable for more than ten years, as boring as some first love couples. But after working for two or three years, his brother got married, but he didn't get married because his family had no money. My parents are in a hurry. I'm not in a hurry. In fact, I have a complaint, because our relationship is stable and we deliberately put off getting married. I have this idea. So I don't think it's worth it Some people use unpleasant language to stimulate me, saying that I will not leave anyway, but it is certain that he will not get married. I am very angry. But intellectually, they are telling the truth. I think he is a good man. He just doesn't have enlightened parents. And he is also trying to make money, getting up early and getting greedy. He is the hardest worker around me. You know, this society is not really rewarding, and you can get good returns quickly if you are not diligent. Especially money. I love him, and I'm sure of our relationship. Thankfully, after more than ten years, we can finally get married. I have experienced a lot in the middle, but in the end, I thank you all for sticking to it. There is no interference from foreign feelings, and there is not much right or wrong, because the feelings between us are very simple, and the complexity is the mouth and heart of outsiders. It is really important to be less easily disturbed, stimulated and pursued by the outside world.
Finally, I wish you happiness. After a year of marriage, I am pregnant. I am pregnant for more than three months now. In the meantime, I stick to my bottom line. I don't get married, I don't change my mind, and I have no children. His family is very traditional. What I need is an attitude from beginning to end in exchange for others' personal respect for me. Girls, who dare to love, will love rationally. I wish you happiness.