After the incident, many netizens said it was hard to accept, and they thought such a custom was unreasonable. But one is willing to fight and the other is willing to suffer. Every place has its own customs that should be observed. We can also see in the video that when the bride gets off the bus, the groom's father carries her first, and then an uncle of the groom carries her. After a walk, the groom's uncle gave the bride to the groom's other uncle. Not far from the wedding gate, he gave the bride to the groom. Many netizens think it is really inappropriate for men and women to give and receive, especially on such a big day as a wedding, wearing a wedding dress for other men to carry.
If the parking place is far from the wedding, why not drive directly to the wedding site? However, we also need to know the real situation. Although it seems unreasonable that the bride was carried to the wedding venue by the groom's father and two uncles after she got off the wedding car, she is actually a family and did not take advantage of the bride. They just respect local customs. As bystanders, we naturally feel embarrassed, but for the parties, there must be a reason.
In some places, marriage customs are unacceptable. In addition to the customs of Hubei, Chaoshan, Shandong and Henan, their marriage customs are unacceptable, but the so-called existence is reasonable. For us normal people, although the daughter-in-law and the father-in-law are a family, after all, men and women are different, the times are developing, and the marriage customs in some places should really be abandoned.
? "Marriage" should be forbidden.
Although in the past, the formation of marriage struggle played a positive role, the traditional marriage custom can exist because it can bring a good omen and a beautiful vision to new people, make them feel comfortable and be beneficial to their future life. Then we should also distinguish what is traditional marriage custom culture and what is marriage trouble.
Marriage is caused by closure and ignorance. The original intention of holding a wedding is to make a couple last, and also to make the parents of the bride and groom have face. But if it is the excitement caused by playing tricks on the bride and groom, there is something wrong with it. A wedding is a wedding day, but it is not a "gold medal" for those who do something out of line.
Some vulgar marriages should really be banned. We should take the essence and discard the dross. Crying is like a farce, which means nothing. It may make the wedding awkward, or it may lead to the bride and groom's family breaking up in discord. Although marriage prohibition is not a one-off event, it needs long-term planning. But as the bride and groom, when faced with some unreasonable behaviors, we should dare to refuse, and don't compromise for some so-called face, which will only hurt ourselves in the end.
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Although the wedding is a very common ceremony, it is very sacred and of great significance to both the bride and groom. The sense of ceremony in the wedding is also the most fundamental value embodiment of the existence of the wedding. Although it is very tiring to prepare for the wedding, the memories he brought us are very precious and irreplaceable.
For the bride and groom, they both want their wedding to be a success. She runs through our lives. If there are some inappropriate behaviors during the wedding, or some traditional customs lead to problems in the wedding, it may become their regret.