People have long been influenced by Confucius' feudal thought of "only women and villains don't raise them", and they prefer boys to girls. From the secular point of view, the adopted daughter is just "a relative" and "a weak relative". So women's marriage is not as grand and complicated as men's marriage. Generally, local women don't stick couplets on their wedding day, and they are not required to blow their hands. They only play by blowing their hands for fun. As soon as the sedan chair left on the wedding day, it was over. Therefore, people have a sigh that "raising a child is full of red, and raising a daughter is empty".

China traditional gongs and drums, no matter what kind of drama, are nothing more than gongs, cymbals and drums. Among them, there are many kinds of musical instruments, because they are different in shape, style, production and use. The types of gongs and cymbals are: gong, sieve gong, big gong, small gong (hand gong), horse gong, stuffy gong and cloud gong; Cymbals, cymbals, cymbals, water cymbals, cymbals, cymbals, cymbals, cymbals, hinges, bells, etc. The types of drums are: Dan Pigu (Bangu), Huaigu, Tanggu (Tanggu), Dagu and Guogu. Playing time includes sandalwood, bangzi, wooden fish and so on. Each musical instrument has many varieties and names because of its different tones.

China traditional gongs and drums, no matter what kind of drama, are nothing more than gongs, cymbals and drums. Among them, there are many kinds of musical instruments, because they are different in shape, style, production and use. The types of gongs and cymbals are: gong, sieve gong, big gong, small gong (hand gong), horse gong, stuffy gong and cloud gong; Cymbals, cymbals, cymbals, water cymbals, cymbals, cymbals, cymbals, cymbals, hinges, bells, etc. The types of drums are: Dan Pigu (Bangu), Huaigu, Tanggu (Tanggu), Dagu and Guogu. Playing time includes sandalwood, bangzi, wooden fish and so on. Each musical instrument has many varieties and names because of its different tones.

When playing gongs and drums, all kinds of musical instruments must be arranged and coordinated in an orderly way. Only when the drums are conducted can all kinds of rhythmic and regular sounds be played. All kinds of operas are generally combined with the singing style of operas in terms of the selection of musical instruments, timbre and tone, the number and combination of musical instruments, and various rhythm patterns (generally called "ideas" and some called "branding"), forming a unique style of this kind of opera. For example, the gongs and drums in Beijing Opera are basically composed of four musical instruments: big gongs, small gongs, cymbals and drums (drums and drums are two musical instruments, Dan Pigu and ebony, both of which are mastered by drummers, so they are listed together). According to special needs, drums and cymbals are sometimes used to express specific scenes, atmosphere and dramatic emotions.

In short, the use of gongs and drums in marriage is to create a more festive atmosphere, so it will be done.