Although men like to appreciate the intelligence, courage and ability of strong women, they prefer their women to have the traditional virtues of gentleness like little women. Even if there are big women, their talents are hidden. Men usually like virtuous women, are willing to be good wives and mothers, and even silently help themselves to become excellent men. Such women are generally capable but unobtrusive, especially those who "helped their husbands". Once their men are in trouble and need help, they will always do it.
2. Be good at grasping the scale of "big things are clear and small things are confused".
Little women can, but never for family chores. A clever woman can fly a kite. Even if a man flies high, the kite string will always be in his own hands. On the surface, she usually seems to turn a blind eye to your department, but she can always be keenly aware of all kinds of hidden dangers that affect men's career progress and family happiness, and quietly eliminate them in the bud, and guide guilty men on the right track in time, so that she can be reflected in every major decision.
3, self-reliance and self-improvement have their own stable or successful career.
No matter how much money her husband earns, no matter how big her husband's career is, smart women should also have their own careers or stable jobs. Such a woman will not waste all her time and energy on her husband, nor will she be bored by staring at people, have her own living space and circle of friends, and will not be far away from the world. Men always admire this enterprising woman, as long as the spirit of selfless work is not too strong, as long as she can take care of her family and consider her husband's feelings.
4, the pursuit of romance, but will not toss a man with a small temper.
The criteria for a man to choose a wife are different from those for a friend of the opposite sex. Choosing a friend of the opposite sex can put beauty and whether he can have the same topic in an important consideration position, while choosing a wife can consider whether he can live in harmony forever. Moreover, when a man is in love, he can spend a lot of time on romantic planning, and even surprise you with romantic actions from time to time. But few men still maintain such romantic passion after marriage, so they are considerate women.
5. Forgive men's mistakes.
Most men have no sense of self-discipline, and there are many temptations in social activities that they can't resist. They played cards yesterday, got drunk today and will go home at midnight tomorrow. Moreover, when they go home, they always take off their smelly shoes and socks at will, and they won't really be angry with men who don't take a shower, wash their feet or sleep. This is the woman that men like, with tolerance for men's bad living habits. Men can listen to women's lessons and scold them, but they don't like women to correct their living habits with the idea of transformation.
6. It is best to get the hall and kitchen together.
Most men like to take their beloved women to various social activities, and hope that their women can give full play to their knowledge in important social activities and add luster to their social activities. Of course, if there are important guests visiting, not only can you be polite, but you should also be generous and polite in diplomatic etiquette. At the same time, you can also cook several well-known home-cooked dishes to satisfy your appetite.
7. Be gentle as water and strong as steel.
Although men like all kinds of amorous feelings of women, they always choose to be with tender-hearted women in the end, especially the angry woman in Innocent Girl, which is a good tonic for men. However, smart women know that blindly gentle obedience can never effectively control men's freedom. On the issue of principle, in the face of serious difficulties and strong competitors at critical moments, strong personality and firm will are the best means to remain invincible.
8. It can persuade her husband without restricting her freedom of movement.
All men need women to take care of them, but the ways and means of care are very particular. If a woman is used to interfering in every detail, she is as annoying as the old female supervisor in your unit. Such a woman believes that if you are killed, you will not marry and go home as a wife. Men like women to be smart enough to do something, so that men can always know what they can and can't do, and they can have a fully free living space, a relatively private private space and undisturbed hobbies.
9. Kindness can treat the man's parents and elders well.
Women can be selfish, but they can't be unreasonable. They haggle over every ounce or don't know how to honor their parents-in-law, especially the standards of treating parents and parents-in-law are completely different, which is a big taboo for men when they get married. Of course, men don't ask their wives to ignore their parents. As long as filial piety is also the proper meaning of being a daughter-in-law, women who can treat their elders well can mostly treat their in-laws after marriage. Such a woman must be a traditional girl with a good upbringing and a good heart (yiQIg.cOm).
10, I like that children can patiently educate their children to grow up.
If a girl can postpone the marriage age again and again for her own career, or postpone the birth of a child again and again for her own career after marriage, this absolutely career-oriented woman will usually not be accepted by men. Most men will accept the arrival of new family members, and the concept that marriage is to carry on the family line is also the basic principle of all men. If you can promise a woman who can help her husband have children immediately after marriage, not only men will want to marry the best daughter-in-law candidate in the eyes of their in-laws.
1 1. Be generous and decent in front of the man's friends.
Men like to marry smart women, especially smart women who pretend to be weak women in public and give themselves a big masculine face. Even if they hear men bragging in front of outsiders and in front of themselves, they still smile. As for how to deal with him after returning to China, that is another matter. This kind of woman who can tolerate men's vanity, give men a relaxed environment and a home where they can relax is definitely a blessing that men have cultivated in this life. Such a woman is the best in men's eyes.
12, likes to dress up and is good at dressing up.
Men don't like women who are unkempt and plain. They always feel that their life is too rough, and they are worried that marrying such a woman will make their life order more chaotic. After all, an unattractive woman can't have an exquisite life. Men like to appreciate women who live a refined life, and they like to appreciate women who are well-dressed and generous every day. You know, there is a division of labor in this world. Women dress to provide men with a pleasing attitude towards life and a positive and enterprising work passion.