Let me tell you about the general engagement custom in this area. At the engagement ceremony, the man wants to buy gifts, engagement money, banquets, etc. And most of the people who are engaged with the woman are their mothers, aunts, sisters-in-law and other relatives, and the wedding date is yet to be determined.

In recent years, it has become more and more obvious that it is difficult to marry a wife in rural areas of Tanghe. The main reason is that in recent years, the lottery in rural areas has been rising higher and higher, which has caused many peasant families to bear greater economic pressure, so many children are in danger of being single. Many people think that the bride price money belongs to the property of married couples, but it is actually wrong.