In fact, you can solve this problem just by asking your girlfriend.

Very simple question

1. A matchmaker is enough, and relatives can go first. After all, your home is not here.

I went to your girlfriend's house first, and then we went together.

The dress doesn't have to be red (it used to be, but it doesn't matter now)

3. That's how the smoke disperses.

Those people don't need to give any gifts.

Happy wedding! ! !