Nowadays, when people get married, many people will invite a wedding company, which will arrange many programs. These programs are actually a bit of a combination of Chinese and foreign. They have both ancient traditional places and western things. For example, wearing a wedding dress is western. Our ancestors did not have wedding dresses.

However, some families still choose to get married in the old traditional way, which will be more lively. Whether it is a new or old-fashioned way of getting married, as long as both men and women accept it, there will be no problem.

A wedding is just a celebration. Please witness by friends and relatives. The bride and groom will become a new couple and start a new life happily. But on the issue of marriage, some people will have some unpleasant things, mainly because of money.

Getting married is a very expensive thing. If the bride begins to fall in love, ends her marriage and returns to the door, all the money in the process will add up, which is incredible. The wedding room alone is a lot of money, not to mention bride price, wedding and dowry.

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There are all kinds of red envelopes at the wedding, which add up to a lot of money, and most of them are given by the man. For example, the man goes to the woman's house to pick up relatives and gives a red envelope when he enters the door. Otherwise, the woman's house will cross several benches at the gate to prevent the groom from entering the door, so that the groom will not receive the bride.

Of course, these things should be discussed by both parties before the wedding. The wedding will be handled as agreed by both parties, and everything will be smooth and satisfactory. Most people abide by the agreement, what to discuss before the wedding, and then what to do at the wedding.

But there are exceptions to everything, and some people will suddenly change their minds, such as adding red envelopes temporarily. This is easy to cause unhappiness. Even if the man is forced to give more red envelopes, he is unhappy after all and feels that he has been kidnapped.

This happened when my cousin got married. Fortunately, my wife took care of the overall situation, so the final marriage was held smoothly. My wife has a big brother, and my parents are particularly patriarchal. They have always attached importance to their son since childhood.

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After my cousin fell in love with my wife, my wife's mother tried every means to ask her son-in-law for things through her daughter, and then used them to please her son and daughter-in-law. Before my cousin and my wife got married, when the two families were discussing the marriage, my wife and mother violently demanded the bride price.

Originally, my cousin's family was going to pay a bride price of 20 thousand yuan. At that time, 20 thousand yuan was already quite a lot here, and the average family was several thousand yuan, and the number of people was ten thousand yuan. It is because my mother-in-law is greedy for money that my aunt and uncle gritted their teeth to give her 20 thousand yuan.

Speaking of marriage, my mother-in-law just raised the bride price from 20,000 to 60,000. Although my aunt and uncle are unhappy, my son and future daughter-in-law are very loving. How could they be separated because of money, so I crustily skin of head and agreed.

On the wedding day, my cousin took the wedding team to the woman's house and distributed all kinds of red envelopes. Things are going well. But in the end, when I had to pick up the bride, the accident happened. My mother-in-law offered to give her brother-in-law a red envelope of 30 thousand yuan.

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According to our old custom, when the bride goes out, let her brother carry the door of her family, and then the groom takes her away. Brother, this time, the groom's family will of course give a red envelope, and the cousin's family will give 5000, which is good when talking about marriage.

Who knows, the night before the wedding, my cousin's sister-in-law thought that 5000 was too little, so she sneered in front of her mother-in-law, who recognized the meaning of her daughter-in-law. At that time, my mother-in-law thought that asking my cousin to add a red envelope might be rejected. So at the wedding the next day, my mother-in-law temporarily raised the price.

My cousin is unprepared and doesn't have that much cash with him. At that time, there was no WeChat or Alipay. Cousin had no choice but to collect 5000 yuan from the person who went to pick up relatives and gave it to his brother-in-law 10 thousand. But my mother-in-law disagreed and insisted that my cousin send someone back to withdraw money, so the two sides were deadlocked.

My wife didn't see my eldest brother take her out in the room for a long time, and I didn't know that something was wrong outside until I asked. She was so angry that her mother regarded her as a cash cow. She texted her cousin that she had gone out the back door and asked her to drive the wedding car to the back door. She got in the car and left.

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In this way, my cousin lied about going home to get money. As a result, the wedding car drove to the back door, picked up his wife and ran away, while the mother-in-law's family was still waiting at the front door. The day after the wedding, my wife got home and was kicked out by her family, but she didn't care. She feels worthy of her family.

It turned out to be a big joke. If my wife hadn't taken care of the overall situation, I'm afraid this marriage wouldn't have happened. Under the conditions of my aunt's family, it was not easy to pay another 20 thousand yuan at that time. The old couple have emptied their pockets and owed some debts.

And the most important thing is the mother-in-law's practice, which is so irritating that my cousin's family can't accept it after all. Be honest in life and be honest in marriage. Since it is agreed in advance, we must do it according to the agreement. This way of pressing others on the spot and forcing them to give money is really kidnapping.

Later, my cousin was kind to his wife. He is grateful for her understanding and the overall situation. Husband and wife love each other, love first and then love. In my cousin's opinion, his wife is very kind to him, so he loves her very much, and the relationship between husband and wife has always been very good.

People who really love each other must not be influenced by other factors when they get married. They should bravely overcome difficulties and strive for their own happiness.