In the first category, if the woman has good conditions, generally speaking, the bride price will go back to the past, or a little more. For example, the bonus given by the man is 60,000 yuan, and the woman can return 80,000 yuan or 65,438+10,000 yuan as the future living funds of the newlyweds. It is a traditional custom in China to give bride price when getting married. In ancient times, dignitaries usually gave some gold, silver and silk, while the poor were just a few gifts. But in any case, the bride price must be given, because it is a necessary step of engagement, but nowadays people give cash, which is what we often call the bride price. Since the gift is given, it is inevitable to return the gift, so-called reciprocity. How much does it cost to give a bride price as a wedding gift?

Actually, about what? How much bride price should be given in return for the wedding? Many friends who are going to get married want to know this question, but I have to tell you that there is not a certain amount. Take my hometown as an example. Generally, the bride price is 60,000-80,000 yuan, and the woman only needs to return several thousand yuan as a bride price, because the rest of the bride price will be used for household appliances, furniture and so on. Of course, people in different places have different answers about how much bride price to give in return for their marriage. I can roughly divide them into three categories:

Secondly, if the woman's condition is not good, in this case, you can also leave all the bride price, some for your parents to raise, and the rest as a dowry. If you don't return the gift, the woman can return part of the gift as a gift.

The third category is that both men and women have similar conditions. In this case, the parents will leave the money to the young couple, and it makes no difference whether they come back or not. This is just a process.

Most wedding gifts are just these three kinds, and everyone can look at them according to their own conditions. And because everyone's situation is different, the two sides can also negotiate. All parents want their children to be healthy. If there is no difficulty, whether it is a bride price or a return gift, it will be used on their children. This kind of thing should not be taken too seriously. Therefore, I think how much bride price to give in return for the woman's wedding depends on her family conditions.

It is not a difficult question to answer how much bride price to give when getting married. What is difficult is the people's hearts. If the family conditions of both parties are good, it is only a process. In fact, there are many couples around me. When it comes to marriage, they break up because of bride price and return gift. Is it really worth it?

When you get married, the two families will become one. Since they are all family members, why should they care so much about money? If the woman has money, she will naturally return the gift money. If not, it is the same whether the bride price is not refunded or less. Oh, they are your parents too. Filial piety is a matter of course!

There are many differences in family circumstances and customs, so there is no certain standard, and both families can negotiate and reach mutual acceptance. The above introduction is for your reference only.